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The lens that changes everything!
Hello lover,
On the 23rd, I’m relaunching Reclaim the Fire: The Masculine Path to Polarity, Arousal, and Erotic Leadership. The roadmap for men who want to be unforgettable lovers.
In the next 12 days, I’m briefly going to touch on the lessons we will tackle during the program, with some stories attached to it.
On week one we start with the Foundations of Polarity & Embodiment.
I was walking through the forest with a former lover, and I said something that made her stop in her tracks. “I have never felt so seen and understood.” She said it with a light tremble in her voice.
Weeks before that, I had taken a course in Polarity. And it immediately changed my entire perspective on masculine-feminine dynamics. I saw all the ways I was falling short in my relationship, I suddenly had newfound love and appreciation for the feminine, and it strengthened how I felt about my own masculinity.
In everything I’ve ever done, I’ve always been interested in how the cogs turn. I want to know the smallest mechanics at the core of things. Polarity is the core foundation that I was looking for. Every relationship dynamic flows from it in some way.
During that forest walk, I basically apologized for all the ways I was not stepping up as a man in the relationship. And I acknowledged all the ways I was not honoring her feminine essence.
Now, learning about Polarity didn’t only help me gain new perspectives on my role as a man. It also revealed all the ways I was taking responsibility for elements of the relationship that were actually her responsibility.
As a former people pleaser, I was always quick to accept that all the relationship problems we had were because of my personal failing. Polarity revealed how that was not the case. And it has been instrumental in stepping out of this pleaser role.
Lastly, polarity showed what responsibilities both sides have in keeping intimacy thriving and alive. Which makes maintaining it a lot easier.
Even though the course is 12 weeks long, this first lesson is the one you should come back to time and time again. It really contains everything you ever need to know about men and women. A bold claim, but one I truly believe.
If you’re interested in joining the program, you can read more about it here.
And stick around for the next 11 lessons.
Your intimacy guide,
Sanne
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The lens that changes everything!
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