👋 Hi, I’m David! I live in Buxton, UK. I am nervous but hopeful to join this community and better understand my partner’s mental load.
I want to get these 3 things from the community:
- Tools to increase my mental load and acknowledge my partners mental load
- Increase my compassion and empathy for my partner
- Become a better listener and equal in my relationship
Some things that my partner fell in love with me for:
- Being steadfast and supportive
- Our joint sense of humor
- My confidence in our future (this has dwindled severely and she no longer trusts me and feels like I am coasting. I want to regain my confidence and set myself new life goals)