Women's favorite mating strategy is simple:
"Have fun first, settle down later. Get a career, fuck around, and your white knight will be waiting for you at the end of the tunnel."
Sleep with the guys you truly desire in your youth: the athletes, the rich, the toxic bad boys. Afterwards, a "real man" will be there to marry you and accept your past (beta male orbiters).
It is Alpha fucks, Beta bucks. Alpha seed, beta need. Hypergamy 101. Understand their strategy and never settle. Have your standards and abide by them. Women never deviate from theirs, neither should you.