A wise man will never move with urgent haste in favor of marriage.
He sits back and vigilantly observes:
- How she acts when she's "bored."
- How she responds to other men giving her attention.
- How she handles her finances.
- How she respects boundaries and rules.
That's the real test gentlemen, not her words, but her patterns and results. This is how you will know if she's main girl material or walking red flag to use and/or avoid.
I'm not against marriage, I'm only against the way it's done now. You gain zero benefit in traditional marriage. Would you ever sign a business contract where the other party is incentivized to break it?
The answer should be evident. Onwards Gentlemen.