Every text conversation you have with a girl must follow this simple rule:
Suppose the thought of someone other than you and your girl reading your permanently archived romantic exchanges makes you feel embarrassed. In that case, you are doing something wrong that will eventually lead to your girl dumping you.
An example of texting from a beta:
YOU: Good morning, baby! 🙂 I had a great time with you last night!
HER: Me too. Can’t wait to see you again. YOU: Free this Thursday? I miss you ❤😘 HER: Aww. Thanks, sweetie. Call me later. People reading this will puke a little and say “What a lame-ass. Like that’s gonna last.”
An example of texting from a place of alpha:
YOU: {nothing}
HER: Are you there? Haven’t heard from you in a while. YOU: Hey, babe. What’s up? HER: The love last night was incredible! Have u been thinking of me?
YOU: Just a little.
HER: 🙂 Miss you already, baby! ❤😘
YOU: {nothing}
The difference is clear. This man has kept his responses shorter than his girl’s and intriguingly aloof. He has refrained from emoting effusively. An objective third party would say “He’s cool. Bet he gets laid a lot.” You want to be a man people think gets laid a lot, even if you don’t.
*Avoid texting on a regular basis. It is borderline beta. A man should not have the empty time to punch in a frivolous conversation with a girl using only his thumb.