Friends and inviting women to nonexistent things.

Good afternoon.

I recently finished “The Setup”, by Dan Bilzerian. When y’all read it, I recommend purchasing the actual book so you can take specific notes when he mentions dating, sex, and relationships.

In Chapter 9, he mentions that it is easy to invite women out to things when you already have something going have. In the context mentioned, he was hanging out with friends and approaching women not with an offer for a date, but for some activity, food, the beach, whatever.

This is easier when in high school or college. But I’m 36. My best friends from the Marine Corps that still live near me are married with children, or literally across the country. I’m a nurse now, so you’d thing I’d get plenty of useful female friends at work, but they are only work friends and most are a bit older with children and husbands or both. I’m in a great location (Houston) for my career, but I guess I don’t have any friends at all. I can’t invite women to anything because, well I’m not doing anything.

I go to the gym, I go to BJJ, I go to work, but I have nothing to invite anyone to. I have no built in social network like in college.

I’m committed to solving this problem, but I don’t know where to start. Has anyone else approached this same issue with a good solution?

Thanks,

Brett

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