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Good evening everyone, like a year ago I took a couple of pictures below, for me they look great but I'm not sure if they are Instagram worth for a post or story, feedback will be much appreciated.
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1 like • 8h
I don't care for Stanley's messaging. It's self-serving and cruel. But his conclusion is correct. These photos do not position you in a context that implies access, social proof, or lifestyle that women are responding to on Instagram. Every photo on your grid has to help you, or it's hurting you. Right now, these aren't helping. This isn't about the activity itself, but rather the execution. With better framing, a wider shot that shows more of the environment and less of you, stronger wardrobe selection, and editing in Lightroom, you can absolutely create a version of this that works for your grid.
Making female teammates +initial events
With all the feedback I’ve received in previous posts it has clarified a big question I have concerning starting up with MOA and navigating recent woes in attempts.(though I’ve technically completed 2 of the first 4 steps). How should we go about making our female teammates? Cold approach at college campus, coffee shop, meetup for activities we like? Just relying on luck (with a fixed IG of course) for the girls we dm to show up an event we invite them to? If we need preselection for the ‘model level’ girls to be compliant and come out then how do we make female friends initially to get said content? Additionally, which events are we taking these new found female friends to and how do we get admission, considering we have zero leverage/trust at first with host and it doesn’t mean shit to a host if we tell them we can bring girls to their events (at least in my experience as I’ve tried with 3 events - fashion shows, nightclub parties etc)? Are we paying for everyone’s tickets in this case?
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@C J these are to people he had not met before . They aren’t strangers. He made an event offer, they replied, now he has open thread and they can see his content more easily.
0 likes • 10h
@C J No you just need an offer they can’t refuse
Building my list...
I am putting together my list of 2,000. Probably 4,000, since I am in Orange County, and can include LA. Do I care if they are single or not? Is it only people that would be my ideal? Or am I simply looking for "influencers," "models," that type of thing?
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Here you go https://www.skool.com/men-of-action-free/classroom/c794fcbb?md=66fa0d3dc08c4b8198b5e2add9b1b259
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@Todd Gaster Being in progress on building my list, I only add public accounts who clearly broadcast that they are in Houston, or a close to Houston. And I prefer women who are single with no kids. If I can't tell where they are I don't bother with them, and usually with private accounts it won't say where they live.
Hot List Down Under Finished
Finally after a mere 14 days, I've added over 2300+ women on my list within the metropolitan area of Victoria, Australia. What's interesting is girls who are quote on quote "super attractive" tend to head towards these boojie restaurants I've collected since then. Not necessarily the clubs (although there are plenty of pretty girls who do go) Location, location, location - I'm only a stones throw away from these venues and bars that garner most of these girls which is a plus. Before I outreach to these girls, my Instagram still needs more fine tuning and I still believe that there's plenty of work to do. I'm out reaching and locking down shoots with photographers catered to more of a relatable carousel of photos for the gram, again.. I'm quite harsh with the photos I upload, photos can always illicit better reactions. The last thing I need is a child molester with a drug problem Instagram feed, let's get with the times fellas. While I've completed this list, I'm still working on 200+ male influences who are catered to these venues in some format. For example, I've noticed that these influences tend to take photos at these venues and bars to illicit some social proof formality. Therefore, it would only make sense to walk into these venues and establish a connect in some manner. These aren't just women, but also influential men too. For those wondering, I'm located in Melbourne. What are your thoughts on this? How did you guys establish more connections? And if so, what worked for you?
Hot List Down Under Finished
1 like • 4d
Elicit, not illicit
Successfully getting a group out
this is my 3rd time trying to assemble a group for someone else’s event (a pretty popular fashion show in the city amongst upcoming models) I got 20 confirmations but like 1 showed up (the rest flaking with excuses). The one that showed was actually already on guest list for the show and was there before me. Made me think how do you actually go about actually being able to walk in to an event with a bunch of girls and have them actually like be your guests rather than just in the same room sort of thing? Also I’m going to most of these events by myself so do you guys suggest just being social and meeting people there? Whats the best way to break rapport at these events?
0 likes • 6d
@C J The end goal @C J , is that you can bring such a quantity of women that they let you in. We are used to looking at these events from the outside, as consumers, as the guys who have to buy access. But if you can show up to a nightclub with 8 beautiful women, they let you in, and they won't turn you, CJ, away. You're a guy who can bring 8 hot women to a club! They would never turn you away, you're making them money! Once you can make them money, once you offer value, you are apart of the ecosystem. When you think of buying tickets, you're misunderstanding where you would be if you could even go to that event. At that point, your value is being a social connector, someone who can attract sponsors, a catering company, a dj, alcohol, women. At that point, you aren't thinking about buying a ticket for these things. They'll come to you! That's why you would get to know a Dj at an event you go to, or a photographer, or even the supervisor of the catering company of OTHER events you have gone to. And how do you get a line on these other events? Make hot female friends, they get invited to shit. Treat them all the same, make them talk about themselves. Don't lead with intent.
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Brett Stringfellow
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