A New Discovery That Changed How I Think About Group Wellness
This week, I had one of those moments where you realise you’ve somehow missed something that everyone else seems to already know. You know the feeling, people are nodding along, using the language with ease, and you’re quietly thinking, How have I not come across this before? That was me this week when I properly encountered Yalom’s group factors. It felt surprisingly new to me, not because the ideas were unfamiliar, but because I’d never seen them named, structured, and explained in this way. Once I started paying attention, I couldn’t unsee them. They suddenly showed up everywhere: in learning spaces, support groups, friendships, and communities like ours. And the more I reflected on them, the more I realised how powerful they are, especially when it comes to emotional wellness and group wellbeing. 💛 Why This Matters for Emotional Wellness One of the most important ideas in Yalom’s work is Universality, the realisation that we are not alone in our struggles, our quirks, or even our insecurities. So often, emotional distress grows in silence. We assume our feelings are unique, excessive, or somehow “too much.” When we discover that others feel the same way, whether it’s anxiety, self-doubt, overwhelm, or even feeling too loud or too quiet, something softens inside us. That softening is emotional wellness in action. Shame reduces. Anxiety eases. Self-judgement loosens its grip.We move from “What’s wrong with me?” to “Oh… this is human.” And that shift alone can be deeply healing. From Individual Wellness to Collective Wellness What really struck me, though, is how these ideas extend beyond the individual. We talk a lot about personal wellbeing, and rightly so, but group wellness is something different. It’s about how safe, supported, and regulated a group feels as a whole. It’s about how people show up together. Yalom’s factors give us a beautiful framework for this. - Altruism reminds us that helping and being helped both matter - Group cohesiveness creates emotional safety and belonging - Instillation of hope shows us that growth is possible, even when things feel messy - Interpersonal learning helps us understand how we affect others, and how they affect us