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Embracing the Messy Middle (How to Overcome Sense of Defeat)
*Feel free to skip the intro and go into the strategies at the bottom if you'd like!*** ----------------------------------------------- A few weeks ago, I felt like I hit a wall. (That sounds more extra than it is/was). I was looking around at all the things that I wanted to do and how it felt like I wasn't making any progress and also how it felt that forces outside of myself were impeding movement even when I had the energy/motivation/oomph to make things happen. I felt defeated and that is a feeling that I DO NOT experience often and I DID NOT like it one bit. I bounce back, I pivot, I change course, I remain optimistic-perhaps even delusionally so, ha! In short, I show up. I see opportunities for growth and improvement in most situations, so it's hard for me to stay down. I love this about myself so it felt extra challenging when it felt like I was stuck and when it felt like I wasn't myself. Strange feeling. I only remember feeling like this maybe 3 other times in my life. Thankfully, each time, there was a 'cause' or things that I can point to that needed tending to, so experience has taught me that this was solvable but I needed the reminder. (So super thankful for the conversations that I've had recently that helped me with recalibration. Beyond grateful). I also needed to recognize three things: 1) the values that were at play that contributed to me thinking that I had limited options , 2)the expectations and 3)the strategies to employ to get me back to feeling like movement was happening. Look at me being a human being. Who would have thought?! ha. I'm just kidding, I know I'm a human. Below I'm going to focus on some research backed strategies to help with reframing our mindset and keep the momentum alive even when things feel like they're not moving. :) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 1. 1. ๐ˆ๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ฒ "๐“๐ก๐ž ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฉ" ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž "๐Œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฒ ๐Œ๐ข๐๐๐ฅ๐ž" First, know that what youโ€™re feeling is actually a normal part of any bold venture.
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Challenge Day 2: Noticing Nature
There are sooo many benefits to being out in nature and noticing things in nature. Go outside and find as many nature related things as you can. A flower blossoming through the side walk, the trees that may be there, birds and other wildlife making their homes, little ants on the ground...Look for the big and look for the small. :) Be truly present with what's in front of you. Check out @Thomas Rua Jr. 's post mother-nature and share your own nature story if you'd like. :) His nature experiences sound beautiful and peaceful. Additionally, I took the last picture from @Dr. Melissa Partaka's blog website where she talks about the past/present/future and our relationship with it. " Learn from the past, plan for the future, but live in the present." Check it out here: We Have Is Now - The Blueprint Method
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The Art of Noticing (Day 1: Conduct a Scavenger Hunt)
๐ƒ๐€๐˜ 1 ๐‚๐‡๐€๐‹๐‹๐„๐๐†๐„: ๐‚๐Ž๐๐ƒ๐”๐‚๐“ ๐€ ๐’๐‚๐€๐•๐„๐๐†๐„๐‘ ๐‡๐”๐๐“ Most of us move through our days on autopilot, noticing only what's familiar or immediately relevant. This scavenger hunt is designed to interrupt that pattern. By intentionally searching for specific objects, colors, shapes, textures, or experiences, you'll train your attention to pick up details that would normally go unnoticed. So...pick a goal and tell us what you've found! Super plus if you can take a picture! Some examples: - Something yellow - A heart shape - A reflection - Something older than you - Something handmade - A plant growing in an unexpected place - Observation-Focused - Evidence that a human was here - Evidence that an animal was here - Something that has changed over time - A pattern that repeats - Something you have passed by many times but never really noticed - Creative - Something that looks like a face - Something that reminds you of your childhood - Something that symbolizes hope - Something that represents resilience - Something beautiful that most people would overlook - An object that could inspire a story - Something that seems out of place - A "hidden treasure" in an ordinary setting - People & Community - An act of kindness - Evidence of creativity - Something that tells a story about your community - A sign of hard work - Something that makes you smile What were you on the lookout for today and what did you notice? Thanks to @Steve Webb and his group 30daychallengers for introducing me to the book The Art of Noticing. His community offers one live 30-day challenge every month. It provides a space where we can turn good intentions into action and each day there is a daily prompt/action related to the month's challenge. This month's challenge is 30 days of sunlight, movement, and remembering what the real world feels like. There's access to previous challenges as well and the community is great about support!
The Art of Noticing (Day 1: Conduct a Scavenger Hunt)
MOTHER NATURE
I get lots of support from mother nature. That's my lady๐ŸคญOUR lady โ˜บ๏ธ. I spend a good deal of time sitting on a rock in a river. I feed the fish n birds there. I even sit in the water wit the fish. ๐Ÿ˜…Last saturday a trout that may have been trophy size, she's a biggy. Anyway, said fish was 3ft away, just lookin at me. ๐Ÿ˜†I smile n wave. Same day a snake kept watch over my cloths, from right beside 'em. She too knows I am friend n not threat. Large birds also come to visit. Butterfly's also hang out n big ole dragon flies too. ๐Ÿ˜A few weeks back I had thrown in a bunch of cheap granola n oats I grind up fer the fish n none showed up. THAT was odd as they often show up before I even change into my swimmin trunks. After about ten minuets or so of me going "where are my fish friends", an eagle landed on a tree directly across from me. Huge feller hang out near a half hour n aroun 15 minuets after that ariel predatory left POOF the fish showed up๐Ÿ˜ƒ I love stuff like that. Nature is my buddy. Always makes me smile. Y'all care to share some "nature stories" that remind ya to be grateful for mother nature? I ahh . . . well . . . . I love those, know youns got 'em n I already know my own๐Ÿ˜ Share some fun? I posted this to Self Organizing Organism also. I reckoned it will be enjoyed, useful n appreciated here too so . . . . . . . ๐Ÿ˜Here we go
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Becoming a Beginner Again After 30 Years
I just enrolled in a course I've been thinking about for ten years and then immediately had a small panic, because I haven't studied for an exam in over thirty years. Thirty years! There's something genuinely humbling about choosing to be a beginner again when you could just keep doing the thing you're already good at. But I keep coming back to this: growth doesn't have an expiration date. There's no age where you stop being allowed to want more for yourself. ๐Ÿ’ฌ: When's the last time you let yourself be a beginner at something? Tell me what it was and whether it scared you as much as this is scaring me.
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