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Once I knew this, I became unstuck
We become stuck because we wait too long to act on our ideas. It is so simple, but true. I used to sit on ideas for so long. Waiting for the right moment, waiting until I felt ready, waiting until I had it all figured out and…… nothing happened. I stayed stuck for years living a life filled with anxiety, depression, ADHD and pain because I wasn’t moving forward like I knew I could. The moment I started to shorten the time between when an idea arrived to when I took action on that idea, everything started to change. The energy moved. Momentum came in. Things actually started happening. So now, if an idea or inspiration activates and feels aligned, I just follow it and do it. What is one idea or emotion you’ve been sitting with that you want to move forward or release?
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“I’m not trying to make friends. I’m trying to make money.”
You know that quote from Shark Tank's Kevin O'Leary? What's your reaction when you read that? Are you here for money only? Here's my take: Some of us aren’t here JUST to make money. I'm trying to make both. Money and mission should not be ennemies. I want to get paid to do work that means something, with people who actually respect it. I'm here to build something honest, and work with people who get it. Of course, not every client needs to become a soulmate, but am I building a business where I have to put on a mask just to sell? Nah... I want ease. Respect. Creative freedom. Real results. All of this starts with being honest about what I offer, how I work, and why it matters. You don’t need to fake authority. You don’t need to shout louder. You just need a message that reflects your real value, without faking who you are. That’s how you attract the right clients. The ones who respect your process. Pay your worth. And stay. If that makes me “too soft” for IG / Linkedin, hustle bros, I'm fine with it. I’m not here to scale. I’m here to help and serve, while being paid well doing it. What's your mission?
“I’m not trying to make friends. I’m trying to make money.”
How to ruin client trust
hey, you know what's the best way to shatter client trust ? Easy as 1-2-3: 1- claim your offer works 2- make promises 3- don't show proof (bonus point if you fake) "Trust me bro" vibes. Now that you know what not to do, a few hints: -> Collect testimonials. Stack your client's stories, even the small wins. Testimonials don't have to be only about "how I secured $50k this month". Show the transformation you help them achieve. What was it like before working with you? What about now? What can they do they they couldn't before? -> Share your story, success AND failures. You faced problems. You overcame challenges. Talk about them. We're 8B, chances are you'll impact people -> Just starting out? Send emails, DMs, SMS. Send a fax. Reach out to your old clients, colleagues, bosses. Ask them what it was like working with you, what to they think you're good at... Bonus points if they agree to share that on a video. Show your potential clients: → What you’ve done → Who you’ve helped → That this isn’t the first time you solve their problem You don't need to change your offer. You just need to show it works. PS: need 1-1 guidance? I still have a few spots available for the next cohort, DM me if you're interested. To your success 🚀
How to ruin client trust
anxiety
I used to be paralyzed by anxiety. I was stuck in a freeze mode. My nervous system didn’t feel safe. I was stuck in fight-or-flight mode. Just surviving, working my unfulfilling job. I had all these ideas/dreams that I wanted to realize. Yet, I could never execute on any of them. For years, I had this internal voice that would tell me to execute these ideas. Yet, I ignored these because I didn’t feel safe to act. I felt like there was a force that was pulling me from taking action. I was trapped in my mind and the anxiety was always there. My mind trying to calculate every situation so I could feel safe. I remained stuck until I actually started to calm myself. The big way I calmed myself was by starting to meditate. As I started to meditate these anxieties started to no longer take a hold over me. If you feel anxiety, the first step is to meditate. Do something different and get a different result. keep doing the same and receive the same. Start meditating in the morning for a few minutes and step into that new version of you
I thought ADHD was permanent
That’s what I was told when I was diagnosed with ADHD at age 6 by a doctor. Subsequently for everyday for 18 years I took medication for ADHD. I always wondered what was different from me versus other people without ADHD. I never could focus fully. I never could stay still. I never could complete projects, was always moving from one to the next. I was disorganized and never on time. My mind was always spinning, from what I had to do later, to that new project I wanted to work on. I never felt fully present. I couldn’t go deeply in any conversation or anything. My mind constantly pulling me in every direction. Constantly procrastinating, finishing everything half way. One day, I decided it was enough. I stopped taking the medication after 18 years at age 24. When I stopped the medicine, I couldn’t even fully read a page of a book without getting distracted. I tried all different types of therapies for years, never worked. It was only until I took my healing into my own hands. I started to reprogram my nervous system, that I started to see improvements. After years, I slowly became free of ADHD. Reprogramming my nervous system through a variety of tools I created over a 6 year period, freed me from the ADHD. I no longer suffer from it. I can focus at will. I can stay completely still. I can calm my mind. I can start or finish any project. I am free from medication and the ADHD state of consciousness. You can become free too.
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