Our Premium Member Call is July 7th at 6 PM EDT - See Calendar for link. This is a bi-weekly call, where we open the floor for your questions, dating dilemmas, and personal experiences. Last month, we talked about the PLEASER SABOTEUR — the voice that criticizes you, doubts others, and keeps you stuck in loops of second-guessing and self-protection. This month, we are discussing the HYPER-VIGILANT: always scanning for danger, protecting you from getting hurt, rejected, or blindsided. Often, mistakes uncertainty for danger. These mental patterns quietly drive your thoughts, reactions, and decisions, especially in dating. 🗓 July 7th Dating Reboot Call ⏰ (6 PM EDT). Comment below on how the Hypervigilant might show up in your dating life. It might look like: - Looking for red flags before you've gathered enough information. - Assuming the worst - Struggling to relax or be present on dates because you're evaluating everything. - Interpreting ambiguity as rejection. - ...we unpack all this and more. If you recognize yourself in any of this, join us! PLUS: I am giving away a SPECIAL GIFT to anyone who attends the meeting tonight - It's my new interactive Dating Decision Scorecard - don't miss this!!! Warmly, Dessi ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- PS: This call is for Members of The Dating Reboot (Premium Tier). If you wish to join, click here. _____________________________________________________

Our Premium Member Call is July 7th at 6 PM EDT - See Calendar for link. This is a bi-weekly call, where we open the floor for your questions, dating dilemmas, and personal experiences. Last month, we talked about the PLEASER SABOTEUR — the voice that criticizes you, doubts others, and keeps you stuck in loops of second-guessing and self-protection. This month, we are discussing the HYPER-VIGILANT: always scanning for danger, protecting you from getting hurt, rejected, or blindsided. Often, mistakes uncertainty for danger. These mental patterns quietly drive your thoughts, reactions, and decisions, especially in dating. 🗓 July 7th Dating Reboot Call ⏰ (6 PM EDT). Comment below on how the Hypervigilant might show up in your dating life. It might look like: - Looking for red flags before you've gathered enough information. - Assuming the worst - Struggling to relax or be present on dates because you're evaluating everything. - Interpreting ambiguity as rejection. - ...we unpack all this and more. If you recognize yourself in any of this, join us! Warmly, Dessi ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- PS: This call is for Members of The Dating Reboot (Premium Tier). If you wish to join, click here. _____________________________________________________

Let's get to know each other! Comment below sharing where you are in the world, a photo of you , and something you like to do for fun. 😊 This post contains important information about getting the most out of this community, so please read through everything before you start. 👓 ✨ Read Through Our Community Guidelines ✨ First and foremost, please read through our Community Guidelines to ensure this remains a valuable, supportive space for everyone. Quick Summary: - Be respectful and kind - No soliciting or self-promotion - Keep it relevant to dating/relationships - Protect privacy - no sharing screenshots - What's shared here, stays here 📈 How To Earn Points, Level Up & Unlock Rewards 📈 Our community is designed around participation. You'll unlock new resources and perks as you engage, support, and help other members. How Points Work: - One 'like' = One point - The more you interact and contribute quality content, the more points you earn - Your level is shown at the bottom right of your avatar picture - Points needed for next level shown under your avatar on your profile page 💎 Important Note About DMs 💎 The ability to DM other community members is unlocked at Level 2 (Cotton). So if you want to stay connected and build relationships in this community, start earning your first points now! Please contact me with any comments, suggestions, or questions. I read everything! Let's reboot your love life together, Dessi 💕

Our Premium Member Call is tonight - June 23rd at 6 PM EDT - See Calendar for link. This is a bi-weekly call, where we open the floor for your questions, dating dilemmas, and personal experiences. Last month, we talked about the AVOIDER SABOTEUR — the voice that criticizes you, doubts others, and keeps you stuck in loops of second-guessing and self-protection. Tomorrow, we are discussing the PLEASER SABOTEUR. These mental patterns quietly drive your thoughts, reactions, and decisions, especially in dating. 🗓 June 23rd Dating Reboot Call ⏰ (6 PM EDT). Comment below on how the Pleaser might show up in your dating life - do you abandon yourself and your needs to keep the peace and hang on to a relationship? Are you always the first to apologize after an argument? Do you excuse or justify "bad" behavior to avoid being alone...we unpack all this and more. If you recognize yourself in any of this, join us! Warmly, Dessi ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- PS: This call is for Members of The Dating Reboot (Premium Tier). If you wish to join, click here. _____________________________________________________

Apologies for the late notice but the call that was on the calendar today is canceled. We have a call scheduled for next week which will take place as planned. I will post additional dates for the month of July.