Guys fall in love with their eyes, women fall in love with their ears.

Read the new blog post here Dating after 50 can feel exhausting. The apps disappoint. Conversations fizzle. People don't follow up. And after a while, it's easy to wonder: Are there any good people left? In my latest blog, I share some of the biggest takeaways from our recent community conversation—including why dating is partly a numbers game, why we need to stop waiting for the other person to make the first move, and how to create more opportunities to meet someone in real life. My biggest takeaway? ❤️ You can't control WHEN you'll meet the right person. But you can control HOW MANY opportunities you create for connection. 👉 Read the new blog: Dating After 50: Stop Waiting for Love to Find You Then tell me in the comments: What's one opportunity for connection you're willing to create this week?

Rejection can also be a celebration. You may have dodged a bullet waving red flags. Rejection only hurts if we allow it to. Rejection is based on what our mind tells us about ourselves. Can he or she really reject you if he or she doesn't really know you yet? People do not reject you. They reject who they imagine you to be. People can only reject you if you give them permission to. Rejection only hurts when you give someone's opinion of you greater weight than your own. Have a awesome day!

In the 1950's, the percentage of women getting married before the age of 30 was 93% !!!! In the 2020's so far, it is only 28% !!!!! And there are many theories as to why this is happening!

Especially when the problem is the state you're in. Have you ever caught yourself replaying the same conversation, the same email, or the same argument over and over, convinced that if you just replay it enough times, you'll finally figure it out? Sometimes that's true. But often, you're just going around in circles. One of the simplest things you can do is get up and go for a walk. Not because the walk magically solves the problem—but because it changes you. Your breathing slows. Your body starts moving. Your attention widens. The story in your head loses a little of its grip. Research by Jeffrey Miller and Zlatan Krizan found that even a brief walk can boost positive emotions—even when people don't expect it to. I've noticed this in my own life more times than I can count. I'll head out feeling frustrated, anxious, or stuck, and somewhere along the way the problem doesn't necessarily disappear... but I begin to see it differently. And that's often enough. We spend so much time trying to think our way into feeling better. Sometimes the fastest path is to move your body first. What is your preferred type of movement? Walk, run, bike, swim, yoga...Please comment below. Have you noticed how it impacts your mental state?