Our Premium Member Call is July 7th at 6 PM EDT - See Calendar for link.
This is a bi-weekly call, where we open the floor for your questions, dating dilemmas, and personal experiences.
Last month, we talked about the PLEASER SABOTEUR โ the voice that criticizes you, doubts others, and keeps you stuck in loops of second-guessing and self-protection.
This month, we are discussing the HYPER-VIGILANT: always scanning for danger, protecting you from getting hurt, rejected, or blindsided. Often, mistakes uncertainty for danger.
These mental patterns quietly drive your thoughts, reactions, and decisions, especially in dating.
Comment below on how the Hypervigilant might show up in your dating life.
It might look like:
- Looking for red flags before you've gathered enough information.
- Assuming the worst
- Struggling to relax or be present on dates because you're evaluating everything.
- Interpreting ambiguity as rejection.
- ...we unpack all this and more.
If you recognize yourself in any of this, join us!
Warmly, Dessi
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PS: This call is for Members of The Dating Reboot (Premium Tier).
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