This is a bi-weekly call for Premium members, where we open the floor for your questions, dating dilemmas, and personal experiences. If you’re feeling stuck, discouraged, or unsure how to move forward in your dating or social life right now, this could be your unlock. A lot of people here are navigating: • Letting go of the past • Rebuilding confidence • Trying to meet new people without it feeling exhausting • Wanting connection, but not knowing where to start That’s exactly why I created The Dating Reboot. This is a small group setting where we go beyond surface-level advice and actually work through emotional healing, confidence, communication, and building real momentum, step by step, together. Starting tonight, we’re also introducing the Positive Intelligence (PQ) framework into our work. What that means in real terms is this: we’re going to start looking at the mental patterns that quietly drive your thoughts, reactions, and decisions — especially in dating. Each month, we’ll unpack one of these patterns, what PQ calls SABOTEURS, and how they show up in your life, your relationships, and your dating experience. We’re starting tonight with the Judge — the voice that criticizes you, doubts others, and keeps you stuck in loops of second-guessing and self-protection. If you recognize yourself in any of this, join us: 🗓 Tonight – April Dating Reboot Call ⏰ (6 PM EDT) PS: This call is for Members of The Dating Reboot (Premium Tier). Check out our plans here. Warmly, Dessi

Starting tomorrow, we’re introducing something new inside The Dating Reboot (Premium Tier)! We’ll be working with the principles of Positive Intelligence — not as theory, but as a way to understand how we show up in our dating lives and the choices we make. Because most of what creates frustration in dating isn’t out there. It's internal. It's patterned. And often, it’s invisible. Over the next year, each month, we’ll focus on one of the 10 Saboteurs — the internal voices and patterns that quietly shape how we think, feel, and act: The Judge, the Pleaser, the Victim, the Hyper-Vigilant, the Avoider etc. How they show up in dating. How they influence attraction, chemistry, and decision making. How they keep us stuck in familiar cycles. And most importantly, how to become aware of them, interrupt them, and begin to shift. We are starting with The Judge - The universal saboteur. This work is about seeing clearly. And from that place, making different choices. Join Premium today - only $27/mo or $197 for a full year. Prices go up in May. See you inside!

Dating isn’t just about chemistry, timing, or even compatibility. It’s about emotional availability: our ability to recognize our own level of emotional availability, as well as how available others are, without making it mean something about us. In a recent group session with my premium members we discovered something quite interesting: Most people aren’t struggling with dating per se... They’re struggling with interpretation. 💥 Read the full article here. LMK in the comments which of the 6 insights resonated the most.

Congratulations on the first session today! A few breakout room issues but once there things went well! I don’t think geography was important tonight but the questions got people to open up! There are a few attendees I would like to talk to further primarily to just talk with them 1-1. Well done Dessi Let me know from the options below what you enjoyed most

Last night we held our first virtual social event, and the energy in the "room" was amazing! 40 of you showed up, jumped into breakout rooms, and did something that's surprisingly rare these days — you had real, honest, low-pressure conversations with other people who are in the same boat and who *get it.* Here's what you told me you loved most: 💬 "Everyone seemed so genuine." 💬 "Open and honest discussion among courteous, empathetic individuals." 💬 "It was refreshing to meet virtually and know that all attendees are single." 💬 "Conversations with others going through similar dating issues — not feeling so alone." 💬 "Such a nice, friendly, low-pressure bunch of people." 80% of you said that you would definitely attend again ( 95% if I count the maybes), and 90% of you said you would recommend it to a friend! I consider that a huge win for a first-time event! What struck me reading your feedback was this theme: you came to meet people, and you actually did. Participants were from across the country, all navigating similar landscapes, all showing up vulnerably and authentically. Thank you for keeping an open mind and for tolerating the technical issues - so much great learning from this event that will make the next one that much better! PLUS, most importantly, based on the matching form, I see how much interest there is in deepening the friendships and connections! And yes — we're doing this again. 🙌 Not sure when, but I'll keep you posted! Thank you for showing up, being open, and making this community feel like exactly what it's supposed to be.