Our second May Premium Call is tonight at 6pm EDT - The Avoider Saboteur. This is a bi-weekly call for Premium members, where we open the floor for your questions, dating dilemmas, and personal experiences. Last month, we talked about the JUDGE SABOTEUR — the voice that criticizes you, doubts others, and keeps you stuck in loops of second-guessing and self-protection. This month, we are discussing the AVOIDER SABOTEUR. These mental patterns quietly drive your thoughts, reactions, and decisions, especially in dating. If you recognize yourself in any of this, join us: 🗓 Tonight – May Dating Reboot Call ⏰ (6 PM EDT). Comment below on how you might be stuck in your dating life. Procrastinating, avoiding action, avoiding discomfort, finding excuses for why you are not meeting people...etc. Warmly, Dessi ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- PS: This call is for Members of The Dating Reboot (Premium Tier). If you wish to join, click here. _____________________________________________________

Our second May Premium Member Call is tonight at 6pm EDT - The Avoider Saboteur. This is a bi-weekly call for Premium members, where we open the floor for your questions, dating dilemmas, and personal experiences. Last month, we talked about the JUDGE SABOTEUR — the voice that criticizes you, doubts others, and keeps you stuck in loops of second-guessing and self-protection. This month, we are discussing the AVOIDER SABOTEUR. These mental patterns quietly drive your thoughts, reactions, and decisions, especially in dating. If you recognize yourself in any of this, join us: 🗓 Tonight – May Dating Reboot Call ⏰ (6 PM EDT). Comment below on how you might be stuck in your dating life. Procrastinating, avoiding action, avoiding discomfort, finding excuses for why you are not meeting people...etc. Warmly, Dessi ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- PS: This call is for Members of The Dating Reboot (Premium Tier). If you wish to join, click here.

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I think it’s important to pause and recognize that this day is above all about sacrifice. About people who gave something of themselves so others could have opportunities and freedoms they may never personally experience. Many of us have family members, friends, or people we care about who served in the armed forces in some way. And whether directly or indirectly, many of us have also experienced sacrifice in our own lives. Especially by this stage of life. We’ve loved people. Lost people. Started over. Held families together. Carried responsibilities no one else fully saw. Life teaches you that strength is rarely loud. Sometimes strength looks like rebuilding after divorce. Learning how to be alone again. Opening your heart after disappointment. Showing up for others while quietly carrying your own uncertainty. One thing I’ve come to appreciate more as I’ve gotten older is that none of us are really meant to do life completely alone. We all need people in our lives. People who help us see blind spots. Who offer perspective. Who encourage us when life gets hard. Who understand that reinvention is possible at any age. That’s part of what makes communities like this meaningful. Not just dating. Not just socializing. But realizing there are still good people out there walking through similar chapters of life with courage, humor, wisdom, and hope. So today, along with gratitude for those who served and sacrificed… I hope you also reflect on: Who has helped carry you through difficult seasons? And who might need your encouragement right now? Because none of us get where we’re going completely alone. Grateful today. 🇺🇸

Hi friends, A quick reminder that my free masterclass, How to Find “The One” After 50 is tonight, Tuesday, May 19th at 6 PM EDT. This is an encore from last week - but tonight we will also make time for connection - you will get to meet other members in breakout rooms. ======================== Please register to get the Zoom Link. The link will be sent to your email address. ======================== If dating lately has felt confusing, discouraging, exhausting, or just plain different from how it used to be… you are not imagining it. In this free 60-minute masterclass, I’m going to walk you through the deeper patterns that quietly shape who we choose, why we get stuck, and what actually changes the outcome. We’ll cover: • The formula for getting what you truly want • The 4 Ss of smart dating • The mindset shift that changes everything • How to stop repeating old relationship patterns This is for you if: You’re done settling. You want a real partnership. And you’re ready to approach love differently. I’d love to see you there. Dessi