THE BLUEPRINT FOR A WEEK WITHOUT REGRET
The journey of a father is heavy with responsibility. We often think legacy is something we leave behind when we die. But I believe legacy is how you live today. This pressure often peaks on Sunday nights. I used to feel this deep, visceral regret every Sunday. I would look back at the week and feel like I missed it. I was busy, but I was not effective. I realized I was living as a Passenger. I was letting the urgent demands of life push me around. That is why we created the Weekly Audit. It is a ritual to pause and check your compass. Think of it like a captain checking his coordinates. You cannot reach your destination if you do not know where you are. We look at the Four Pillars not to judge ourselves, but to correct our course. First, we check The Vault. Are our resources secure? Did we spend with intention? Next, The Temple. Did we honor our bodies with movement and fuel? Then, The Kingdom. Did we lead our family with love? Did we connect with our Tribe? Finally, The Chalice. Did we take time to sharpen our own minds? When you do this audit, you flip a switch. You stop worrying about the past and start Architecting the future. You go to bed on Sunday night knowing exactly what you need to do on Monday morning. That clarity is freedom. The Drill 1. Complete the Sunday Review in your journal. 2. Celebrate one specific moment where you lived by the Code: Freedom, Ownership, Resilience, Growth, Excellence. 3. Map out your "Big 3" priorities for the week ahead so you hit the ground running. Which of the Four Pillars needs the most focus from you this coming week?