When was the last time someone genuinely needed your help? Not your money.Not your advice.Just you. One of the surprises of retirement is that many people miss being needed more than they miss the job itself. For years, people called us because we could solve problems, support others, make decisions, or simply lend a hand. Then one day it stops. The phone rings less.The emails slow down.The diary becomes empty. Many people think retirement is about having more free time. I've come to believe it's about finding new ways to matter. That might mean volunteering.Helping a neighbour.Joining a community group.Mentoring someone younger.Or simply checking in on a friend who might be doing it tough. Purpose doesn't disappear when we retire. It just changes address. So here's my question: What is one thing you do today that makes you feel useful, valued, or connected? I'd love to hear your thoughts. #Retirement #Purpose #Community #CaringAndSharing #Wellbeing #LifeAfterWork #Kindness

About Martin Stow Martin Stow is a former Police Officer, community volunteer, author, and Paul Harris Fellow with more than 36 years of Rotary service. Throughout his career and volunteer work, Martin has supported people facing some of life's biggest transitions, including retirement, redundancy, disability, isolation, and the search for renewed purpose. Now in his seventies and living with Primary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis, Martin continues to contribute through community projects, writing, mentoring, and supporting others as they navigate the next chapter of their lives. His retirement and transition books were inspired by conversations with retirees, former colleagues, community members, and those struggling with the loss of identity and purpose that can sometimes follow the end of a working career. Martin believes that retirement is not the end of contribution—it is the beginning of a different kind of opportunity. His guiding philosophy is simple: "Kindness Costs Nowt, But It's Worth a Fortune."

What do you miss most about work? The job itself, the people, the routine, or the sense of purpose?"

"One of the saddest things I hear from retirees is: 'I don't feel needed anymore.' I disagree. Experience, wisdom and life lessons are needed now more than ever."

"Retirement is often sold as endless holidays and freedom. Yet many people tell me the hardest challenge isn't financial—it's finding purpose."