"One does not become whole by remaining perfect, but by becoming complete." ~Carl Jung Much of the time when people speak of "overcoming" stress, trauma, or obstacles, they are referring to successfully managing a situation so that one can continue going about business as usual. But true overcoming is initiation. It requires entering the cave where unprocessed material has been stored in the psyche, with support (both physical and subtle), and metabolizing it fully, so that we no longer need to utilize our energy to chronically avoid that part of ourselves. This metabolization, when it occurs somatically, completely resets the entire foundation of our body and our identity, and it allows us to inhabit our lives in a radically new way. The work of becoming intimate with our shadow is the work of liberation, and like a flower in a garden pressed against the weeds, forward flourishing depends upon it. Have you been hacking at the weeds in your life (chopping the tops off but they keep growing back)? Or have you been avoiding them and allowing them to get overgrown? There is a third way: bravely sinking your hands into the soil and feeling your way along the shape of the roots, feeling the feelings that emerge in this act of intimacy, as you fully hold the bottom of the pattern in your hand, removing it from the soil with unhurried thoroughness. I created the Sanctuary as a space to support this process, with the tools of somatic integration, neuroplasticity, energy medicine, community stewardship, and support of natural forces (both seen and unseen) to shepherd the heroine's journey into that very cave in the psyche, and with guidance on how to harvest the treasure there. At each quarter in the year, we invite the Body & Soul Village to participate along with us in intimate ritual, and as we are in the depth of the cave right now, this upcoming ritual will be a deeply alchemical one. If you would like to join us on September 16th for a ritual session on intimacy with the shadow, please join us via the calendar page here next Wednesday morning.