Hello and welcome to Blended Family Momentum (Free) This community is the best place for you, if you want to: ✅Learn how to be unified with your spouse ✅Follow our simple steps then do the work to make your marriage the best it has ever been. Comment "Start" then click on this link: Welcome to the Blended Family Momentum Community - Onboarding · Blended Family Momentum

This community exists to help you protect your marriage, grow in self-awareness, and build real unity in your blended family. These rules aren’t about control — they’re about creating a space that actually works. Please read them carefully. They matter. 1. This Is a Clarity & Growth Community This is a place for reflection, responsibility, and forward movement. You are welcome to: - Share situations for clarity and growth - Ask thoughtful questions - Take ownership of your mindset and behavior You may not: - Name, blame, or attack your spouse, ex, children, or stepchildren - Post from a place of victimhood without personal responsibility - Use the community to validate unhealthy patterns Growth requires ownership. We will always redirect toward that. 2. No Venting or Bashing Venting may feel relieving, but it keeps people stuck — and it pulls others into the same cycle. This community is not a place to: - Bash your spouse or ex - Gather people to “side with you” - Repeatedly rehash the same grievances If you’re feeling overwhelmed, pause and ask: “What do I need clarity on? “What’s my part in this?” That’s where growth begins. 3. Talking About Exes (Read This Carefully) Constant focus on exes often keeps us locked in blame — and blame kills momentum. Instead of focusing on what your ex did or didn’t do: - Focus on what you can control - Ask how you can respond differently - Shift the conversation toward boundaries, clarity, and growth If a situation involves an ex, keep references brief, factual, and neutral — no character attacks. 4. Marriage Comes First This is a marriage-first community. That means: - We do not undermine spouses - We do not pit partners against each other - We do not validate behavior that damages unity Posts or comments that encourage division in a marriage will be removed. Protecting the marriage protects the family. 5. Advice Must Be Positive & Experiential Advice should never be harsh, prescriptive, or shaming.