yesterday we met a softer part of you. today we’re meeting the part that’s harder to see. i like to think of the psyche as a seesaw. on one end is your ego- the version of you that you’re aware of, the one you identify with, the one you show the world. on the other end is your shadow- the parts of you you don’t fully see, the parts that were pushed down, hidden, or left in the dark. the goal isn’t to get rid of one or the other, it’s to stay in balance. because when we stay too identified with our ego, who we think we are, the seesaw may tip, and when the shadow comes up it can feel intense. you might react in ways that surprise you, feel emotions that don’t match the moment, or see a side of yourself that makes you feel deeply ashamed; especially because you didn’t know it was there. your shadow isn’t something bad, it’s just unseen. and the more it stays unseen, the more power it has over you. so the point isn’t to eliminate it, it’s to slowly bring awareness to it. to recognize: this is also apart of who i am. and over time that awareness turns into acceptance, and that acceptance is what allows you to show up more honestly, fully, and more aligned with yourself. so... how do you keep your seesaw in balance? you start by catching yourself. catch the moments where something small triggers a bigger reaction. when you feel yourself getting irritated, defensive, insecure, or thrown off. instead of reacting right away… pause. take a couple deep breaths. don’t judge what you’re feeling. don’t try to fix it immediately. just notice it, let it move through you, and when you’re ready, get curious about it. you can come up with your own process for working with your shadow, there is no right way to do this. there are so many ways to explore these parts of you. it’s really about what works for you and what helps you stay honest with yourself. 🌗 so i invite you to share in the comments below: 🖤 what are ways you’ve worked with your shadow in the past, and what has actually helped you?