spiritual hot takesā¤ļøāš„
what is one spiritual quote, belief, or piece of advice that you don't agree with, and why? i'll go first. mine is: "everything happens for a reason." while i do believe we can find meaning in our experiences and even grow through painful ones, i've never fully resonated with this phrase. sometimes i think it can encourage us to overanalyze our grief or wait for something we think is owed to us, instead of simply allowing it to exist. when we're hurting, we can become so focused on finding the reason, the lesson, or the hidden message that we don't give ourselves permission to just feel what we're feeling. i don't think every painful experience needs to be justified in order to be valuable. sometimes heartbreak is just heartbreak. sometimes loss is just loss. and usually the meaning comes later, not because something happened for a particular reason... but because YOU chose to create something meaningful from it. you chose to grow, heal, learn more about yourself, alchemize the pain, create something that didn't exist before, and face wounds instead of waiting on the universe to gift you something. that's my take, but i'm curious to hear yours... what's a spiritual quote, belief, or piece of advice that you've questioned or don't agree with, and why?š