It's about walking into the room with ownership, not desperation. When one stops trying to get the job and instead focus on delivering their version of the character, they shift the power dynamic — they are offering something, not begging for approval.
That “fuck it” attitude isn’t careless — it’s confident. It’s trusting one's instincts, committing fully to one's choices, and understanding that the right roles will align with who we genuinely are, not who we're trying to be.