I joined MoA in December 2021, back in the day when all the people who are coaches now were starting out as well. I’ve met most of them personally and lived with Michael for a month. I’ve witnessed a lifestyle I wanted for myself, and I had never seen anyone else live it before (least of all dating coaches). So I made it my absolute priority to burn through MoA and apply all the lessons as fast and clean as I could. It’s an amazing program, and if you follow it without adding your own touches to it too early I`m positive 99% of people can get great results after 6 to 12 months of implementing it. The last 3 years have been a very rewarding and amazingly interesting ride. I’ve gotten to know amazing people, experienced great adventures and also made some of my closest friends along the way. It’s not an exaggeration to say my life would’ve been radically different and a lot less fun had I not signed up for the program. My social connections, dating, and overall happiness are at a stage I honestly didn’t think possible, and if the journey would be over tomorrow, I could honestly say I’ve done more than the average man could do in several decades. I’m very grateful I found this thing still in my early 30s, and I’d like to give something back. That said, I have seen a lot of people reaching out asking for tips to get started. Also I’ve witnessed some or most guys (including myself) make some serious mistakes impeding their progress, so I thought I’d share my main takeaways and learnings along the way. This is highly subjective of course, here`s my IG if you want to check out what I’ve been doing these past few years: https://www.instagram.com/maxrichrt/ So here we go: - Really, REALLY fix your instagram first. It’s mentioned plenty in the program so I won’t go into it much. But I recommend you spend at least 3-4 months prioritizing this to a point where your Instagram has impressive content and around 30-50 posts, before you even consider anything else.

Hi everyone, heres an invite to a big upcoming event that you can use to invite women and open threads. The reel mentions how they can apply if they respond with interested. Heres an example invite. Feel free to tweak the message: @NaluBaySwim is hosting a fashion show + pool party at the Hard Rock Hotel on September 6 • 🚌 Party bus with 50 models from the founder’s house in Laguna Beach to SD (2 hrs) • 🎥 Videographer + drone capturing the ride • 🏨 comped rooms, dinner, and bottles/table at the pool https://www.instagram.com/reel/DN2aY6YXKz9/?igsh=MXJrM3dqd2k4a3N5Nw== Do you want to apply to be a model?

I have talked to some people in moa who will stress and spend hours editing one photo one video and post it or never posted it. I have a short story that might convince you to stop stressing about it. So, I’ve been traveling Asia for over two months, almost three, posting 10+ stories a day of my travels. i’ve also posted multiple photos and dozens of videos showing I’m traveling. This one member who I thought mightve been somewhat plugged into me texts me (rathers than ig dms me) and asks me if I want to “get some content tomorrow”, not realizing I had left vegas in the usa. He’s not the only one to show signs that they have no idea what I’ve been up to in the last few months. I’m not saying that every single person who follows you is completely out of touch. I’m sure there’s some that have a better sense of where I’m at. But very likely, you’re not even close to getting on someone’s radar. In your head, it might be ego that is making you think that this one post is something that everyone will see and George and it’ll be on their mind. But in reality, like many things in life, no one cares. There’s so much competition in people they’re following on Instagram that you can post dozens and dozens of videos and photos of you traveling in Asia and they won’t even bother to check your Instagram for the last few months. So, don’t stress about posting something so much. I met another MOA guy recently who had some really good decent pre-selection photos with multiple girls from a container event he did and he just not have ever got around to posting it when he currently has zero pre-selection photos on his grade. That’s the type of stuff he stresses over too much. No one cares.

I’ve become more aware of my egos impact on aspects of my life, like rejection or random man commenting about me online. I definitely need to work on it more. I need to not get sad, upset or angry if I hit a series of rejections back to back when I’m approaching in person. I need to not let that affect myself worth or how I see myself. They not rejecting me. They don’t know me. They’re rejecting their perception and jumping to conclusions based on a very quick assessment of me based off just my behaviors in the 30 seconds they interacted with me. Similarly, I get comments or advice from men, inside and outside of this community. Some find my instagram on their own and give their two cents in other communities. I have to realize that there judgments or assessments about me are also based on limited information, guess is based on what they see on my Instagram, or little bits that they hear if they attend a group call. I need to not get offended or upset or feel the need to qualify myself and give a big explanation or argue back. If they say something about me that is off that affects my ego. It’s not really my reputation that they’re affecting as much as it is my ego not being able to stand that they have a inaccurate or negative perception of me. For example, one moa member said I should learn to be able to approach women without someone recording. Completely untrue. My friend curtis has seen me approaching in person and of his own volition, he’s told others that I have zero approach anxiety. I guess this guy just seen how many street interviews I posted and made conclusions. Then there’s many other examples, there’s people outside of the program. In other communities, find my Instagram on their own and bring it up, which is always a bit weird, and then make these assumptions about me like must be nice to be rich or you clearly have a lot of free time youre wasting (not knowing at all how much time and effort it can take to organize an event or get content. But ultimately, I’ve learned that I shouldn’t care at all. Be unaffected. A stranger could think that I’m the worst human on earth and I shouldn’t care. There’s this constant need to make sure everyone has an accurate pleasant perception of me but really I should not waste the time online to correct people especially if they’re strangers online.

I feel like when you stop caring if women like or not is when you get good results. In high school I did not care about dating at all and just focused on playing chess and school and I got really good at chess with a few other people in my school to the point we won tournaments and everyone knew me as one of the best chess players in the state. Then girls would come up and start conversations with me but I would not care which I believe resulted in more to approach me. It’s ok if dating is a priority but never make it your number 1 priority always have something you care more about.