Some of you know exactly what needs to be healed. You’ve known for a while. But something keeps you busy. Distracted. “Not ready yet.” That’s not weakness — that’s human. Who here knows they want to do the work but keeps finding reasons not to? Drop a 🙋 below if that’s you. No explanation needed. Just own it.

How can I get more clients? .... .... .... Them (coaches, mentors, advisors, consultants, teachers...): "Anja, you gotta meet people where they are. You gotta meet people on their level..." Me: "OK" .... .... .... Me: "This doesn't work. Is there anything else I can do?" Them: "You gotta try harder!" .... .... .... (finally realized MY truth) Me: "So by saying I gotta meet people on their level you are asking me to either shrink, step back, shut up, hold back, decrease my power... just so I am able to communicate with them and show them they need me? Them (coaches, mentors, advisors, consultants, teachers...): "Well yeah, how else you are going to sell them anything?" Me: What about by doing something that has never been done before, by being someone (authentic me) that inspires them to feel safe with who they REALLY are and offering them genuine experience to co-create magic?" Them: "How are you gonna sell that?" Me: "It's not about selling, it's about inviting and walking my talk. It's about sending the signal to those who are READY to meet me where I am and walk beside me as co-creators. I hold space for them to thrive. In this way energy exchange is a no-brainer." Them:... 💫💫💫 (and this is how you disrupt the existing business patterns) Empire building in progress...❤️ You are welcome🙂

Most people know something needs to change. They’ve felt it for years. But there’s a gap between knowing and actually doing the work and that gap has a name. Sometimes it’s fear. Sometimes it’s pride. Sometimes it’s not even knowing where the door is. And for those of you building communities it goes even deeper. Because you can’t pour from an empty cup. The ceiling on your community is often the ceiling you haven’t broken through in yourself yet. So I’m curious about your experience. What’s the ONE thing that has stopped you from going deeper into your healing? And for the community builders here What do you feel you need to heal in order to grow? What’s the self-imposed limitation you keep bumping into? Drop your answer below 👇 No wrong answers. Just real ones.

The Toroidal figure found a seven-year-old boy today. A boy whose parents turned their attention to another child who needed it and in that quiet moment he decided: love is something you can lose. Hold on. Never let go. That boy grew into a man who couldn’t truly hear his wife. Couldn’t meet her. Closed off emotionally without even knowing it. Now he’s facing separation, wondering how it all went wrong. Today that changed. The release was freedom real freedom something he said he had never felt before. Now the real work begins. Opening his emotional body. Shifting his energy. Not to chase or to fix but to stand as a man in his full power. Whether he rebuilds with his wife or walks forward alone, he will do it as himself. That is what this work is for. Deeply grateful to @Chanie Twersky for this gift. 🙏 of teaching me the toroidal movement and breathe work

Every morning I wake up with it. This dread sitting in my head before my eyes are even open. So this morning I asked myself who in me is feeling this? And I found him. A boy. 14, maybe 15. Hiding in a corner. Shaking. Wouldn’t even look at me. And I understood why. He watched his family go from abundance to nothing. The house, the traveling, the freedom gone. His father contracted into lack and never came back out. He asked for art supplies for school and was told no. He was asked to drop his education. He was last. His father died and his last words were hold on to your money. A dying father trying to protect his son. But what that boy received in that moment was the wound dressed up as wisdom. And he carried it. Honored it. Let it pull him out of abundance and into lack at the most vulnerable moment of his life. Then his sister took her life in 2008. His wife left in 2019 because he was a shell of a man. He built all of it in his body and kept walking. This morning I went to that corner. I didn’t demand he come to me. I went to him. I said I’m sorry. Please forgive me. I love you. I should have kept you safe. He put his hand on my head. And then he let me hold him. And I took him to the beach and we played in the water and the tears came so hard and so fast and so deep from somewhere I don’t even have words for. Deep wood. Deep wound. I don’t want to live from the pain anymore. I refuse it. I am cracked wide open right now and I can’t stop crying and it is the most beautiful thing I have felt in a long time. Because I accepted. Not performed acceptance. Not visualized it. Accepted. If this moved something in you drop a 🙏 You are not alone.