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10 contributions to Real Men Real Style Community
Warm-Weather Nightlife: Light or Dark Colors?
Gentlemen, I would appreciate some advice from those of you who have experience dressing well for evenings out in warm, tropical climates. As I continue working on building a more deliberate warm-weather wardrobe, I've been giving some thought to the differences between daytime and evening attire, particularly for dinners, lounges, restaurants, and nightlife. I spend a considerable amount of time in South America, where daytime temperatures are often in the mid-to-high 80s, evenings are generally cooler, and sudden, sometimes heavy rain is always a possibility. Coastal destinations can be considerably hotter and more humid, even after sunset. I've become increasingly interested in linen, lightweight cotton, and quality natural-fiber blends. White, cream, beige, and tan linen outfits can look fantastic, particularly during the day. But I'm wondering whether those lighter colors are equally practical for an evening out, especially when dealing with humidity, perspiration, wet surfaces, and unexpected rain. For those who regularly dress for warm-weather nightlife, do you find darker colors more practical or better suited to evening settings? I'm thinking of colors such as navy, charcoal, olive, chocolate brown, and black, while still maintaining the breathability of linen or other lightweight fabrics. I'm particularly interested in whether darker colors do a better job of concealing perspiration, rain spots, and the inevitable hazards of an evening out, or whether the difference is largely aesthetic. I would also welcome suggestions for specific combinations of shirts, trousers, and footwear that strike a good balance between looking sharp and staying comfortable. My goal isn't to dress formally for every occasion, but rather to develop a mature, relaxed, well-put-together style that works just as well for a nice dinner as it does for an evening enjoying the local nightlife. I would be interested to hear what has worked for you, especially from those with firsthand experience in tropical or consistently warm climates.
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@Brian McGuire Thanks, Brian. I like your comparison of linen to wool, and your point about building a capsule wardrobe rather than focusing too heavily on individual colors or occasions makes a lot of sense. That's actually the direction I'm hoping to take... fewer, better quality pieces that work together in different combinations rather than accumulating a closet full of clothing that only works for one particular occasion. I'm also beginning to appreciate that understanding the fabric itself, including how to care for it properly, is just as important as choosing the right colors and styles. I appreciate the guidance. You've given me another useful consideration as I start putting this wardrobe together.
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@Antonio Cent Thanks, Antonio. That's exactly the kind of practical insight I was looking for. I hadn't considered that white and black might actually conceal perspiration better than some of the lighter mid-tones, or that textured fabrics such as seersucker and slub cotton could help disguise moisture patches. Those are useful details when you're dressing for a climate where heat, humidity, and sudden rain can all be factors in the same evening. I'm increasingly leaning toward a combination of crisp whites and darker colors such as navy and charcoal for evenings, while keeping the fabrics lightweight and breathable. I also appreciate the footwear suggestion. Some of the rainstorms I've experienced have been pretty substantial, so I'm trying to balance looking well-dressed with being prepared for the occasional downpour. Thanks again for sharing the knowledge.
Progress.
I just did my first one arm Dragon flag. Anti-rotation is real. You all have made such an impact with me going forward, so thank you again. I've been in a 1300 daily caloric deficit, on average anyway, for 11 months. In that time, I have gone down from 320 lb with absolutely zero muscle definition to 189 as of this morning with noticeable muscle definition, but the calisthenic kind, so I look more like Spider-Man and less like Batman. I'm almost done. I point that part out because it's important to know when to take breaks and when you reach the end of a quest that it's okay to not immediate the reach for a second one. One mark of a strong person is going forward, that's true, but another mark of a strong person is a person who knows when to breathe. I am very much looking forward to not eating in a deficit anymore, because while this deficit has helped me shrink and focus, what's the point in being lean and strong and fast if I'm not firing on all cylinders? Take time for you. It's not selfish to make sure that you rested, especially if the reason you're being rested is so you can be in service to others at full capacity
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That's an incredible transformation, J. Going from 320 to 189 is an accomplishment in itself, but doing your first one-arm Dragon flag on top of it says a lot about how much you've changed what your body is capable of doing, not just what the scale says. I also really appreciate your point about knowing when to breathe. We talk a lot about discipline as the ability to keep pushing, but I think there's another form of discipline in recognizing when you've accomplished what you set out to do and allowing yourself to recover before automatically chasing the next goal. You've earned the right to enjoy this one for a while. Congratulations! That's one hell of a journey.
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@J Kennedy I really like the word “fortifying,” J. That's a great distinction. Rest isn't necessarily retreat, and taking your foot off the gas for a moment doesn't mean you've abandoned the destination. I also laughed at the examples. Superman has an apartment may be my favorite argument for taking a day off that I've heard in a while. But your last line is the important one… remember who you're breathing for. We can become so focused on accomplishing the mission that we forget the reason we started the mission in the first place. Well said.
Early morning VA appointment
I hate getting up at oh-dark-thirty, especially after getting home at almost midnight. Oh, well. I still get to look good. Teal J. Crew linen button-down shirt, sleeves rolled up Khaki Brooks Brothers chinos and tan Anson belt with silver buckle Snuff Peal & Co. suede derbies and Khaki Boardroom socks with orange and blue rectangles Tan vented flat cap Addiesdive Seamaster Aqua Terra homage with turquoise dial
Early morning VA appointment
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Looking sharp, Jeff. That teal linen shirt with the khaki chinos is a great combination. I'm actually paying much more attention to outfits like this lately as I'm working on putting together a better warm-weather wardrobe. Linen shirts with lightweight trousers or chinos seem like a great way to stay comfortable without defaulting to shorts and a t-shirt every time the temperature climbs. And after getting home at midnight and having to get up at oh-dark-thirty, extra credit for making the effort. Hope everything went well at the VA.
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@Jeff Wilkinson Thanks, Jeff. This is exactly the kind of practical information I was hoping to learn. I hadn't really considered paying attention to the actual percentage of linen in a blend, so I'll definitely start looking at that rather than simply seeing "linen blend" on the label and assuming they're all relatively equal. I'll also keep an eye out for Irish linen and linen/cotton in particular. As for the wrinkles, I think I can learn to embrace them. From what I'm beginning to understand, that's part of the character of good linen rather than something you're ever going to completely eliminate. I appreciate you taking the time to explain this. I'm starting pretty much from scratch with linen, so this gives me a much better idea of what to look for as I start building out the warm-weather side of my wardrobe.
The dual reality of being a teacher
Yesterday, I got news that my car headlights need to be reconstructed. This means that until at least October, I will have essentially made no money since July as my salary has been continually wiped out with car expenses. That part of the job is dreadful, and I won't try to sugarcoat it. On the flip side, today, I got this email that reads "I can't speak on everyone's part, but I will say my sister and I have wanted to take one of your classes since our freshman year. Not only because I am a lover of history, but also because of all the wonderful things I heard about you. You are one of few teachers who have in a short time made me feel important and understood in the slightest. I love how you check in on everyone and supply comedy to every aspect of the day. Not to mention you're teaching a class most people wouldn't take the effort to better understand or let alone explain to others. Highschool has definitely been a struggle for me, as I know now was for you, but you make that struggle a little less. I thank you immensely for that. I do apoligize for emailing you so late at night. I simply did not want to leave any of my comments forgotten. Thank you for all you do and for generally being an awesome role model. There are few people who make a room as safe as you do. Thank you for your time!" Messages like this make it all worth it.
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William, that's the kind of email I would save forever. What struck me most wasn't that she complimented your knowledge or even your ability to teach history. It was that she said you made her feel important, understood and safe. A student may eventually forget dates, names and half of what was on an exam, but they're unlikely to forget the teacher who made them feel like they mattered during a difficult period of their life. The car situation absolutely sucks, and I wouldn't minimize the financial frustration of working only to watch your income disappear into expenses. But that email is evidence that the work itself is producing something you may never be able to put a dollar value on. Years from now, I suspect that young woman will still remember Mr. Wehrs. That's a hell of a return on the investment you're making in those kids.
Hopefully Back To Normal Soon
Hi Everyone. Since I had my knee replacement surgery 10 days ago, I’ve basically been pretty immobile and unable to leave the house. Today was the first day I was independently able to shower which I am very grateful for. As a result I’ve basically been living in lounging pajamas and tee shirts while navigating everywhere with my walker and starting today, a cane. Having my post op meeting with my doctor this Monday after my regular PT, I’m hoping to get a real grade of progress and if my knee is bendable enough, the green light to drive and do light activities again. Can’t wait to slip on a pair of slacks, casual shirt, watch, bracelet and fragrance and meet the world again. I know full well recovery is months away but every little step is truly appreciated. Have a great weekend everyone!
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Really glad to hear you're making progress, Joe. Ten days after a knee replacement, going from the walker to a cane and being able to shower independently are victories worth appreciating. I hope Monday brings you the good news you're looking for. I also smiled when I read the part about looking forward to putting on the slacks, casual shirt, watch, bracelet and fragrance. There's something about getting dressed, putting yourself together and walking out the door that makes you feel like yourself again. After being stuck at home recovering, I can understand why you're looking forward to that day. Keep putting one foot in front of the other. Hopefully it won't be too long before you're dressed, smelling good, and back out there enjoying life again. Wishing you a strong and steady recovery.
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