Shameless Masterclass - Wednesday March 25th @ 10 am PACIFIC time. Shame is the single greatest block to wealth because shame is an identity-level wound that makes you feel like who you are is fundamentally flawed, unworthy, or “wrong.” When shame roots itself in your sense of self, it creates an invisible ceiling (plateau): “If there’s something inherently broken about me, how could I possibly deserve abundance, love, success, or more than I already have?” This identity block sabotages everything you desire…..money flows in but leaks out, relationships stay surface-level, business growth stalls, spiritual expansion feels blocked. You self-sabotage because your subconscious is protecting the old story: “People like me don’t get to have that.” Because your mind wants to prove itself correct. The sacral chakra (your energetic center of desire, pleasure, creativity, and receiving) governs your capacity to want and hold what you truly desire. When shame clogs this center, your “bowl” of capacity shrinks. You can only contain so much abundance before chaos erupts—overspending followed by guilt, feast-or-famine cycles, pushing love away when it gets too close, or hitting invisible plateaus in income, intimacy, or impact. If you’re stuck at a financial, relational, business, or spiritual plateau right now, it’s rarely because you lack strategy, effort, or “good vibes.” It’s almost always because you’ve reached your current energetic capacity. Your bowl is full, at maximum tolerance for good without triggering the old shame script. More would feel unsafe, undeserved, or destabilizing, so the system maintains the status quo through subtle (or not-so-subtle) self-sabotage. Most people mistake the symptoms for the root problem: • Chronic debt or money leaks • Codependent or unstable relationships • Addictions or numbing behaviors • Business that plateaus despite hard work • Spiritual dryness or disconnection These aren’t the core issue….they’re signals of a deeper capacity block, tied to shame around desire itself.

Unless money is flowing freely in your life you have shame block around money. Monday we will discuss: -Identify your personal money shame pattern -Understand how it stops the flow -We will pinpoint the exact moment in your life where the block was created. -I will show you the exact steps to heal it. See you in class Stef

There are many stories of Oshun the Yoruba Orisha. All are sacred. Listen well. Olodumare, the Supreme Creator, sent 17 Irunmole — 16 powerful male Orishas and one radiant young goddess — to bring life to the barren Earth. The male Orishas, confident in their strength and structured powers, largely ignored or dismissed Oshun. They viewed her domain….soft, flowing, emotional, pleasurable….as secondary or unnecessary for the “real” work of creation. They excluded her influence and pushed ahead with their own efforts: forging tools, shaping land, building, and attempting to spark life through force, wisdom, and labor. They planned. They worked. They built. And they failed completely. The Earth stayed cracked, dry, lifeless. No rivers. No forests. No babies crying. No laughter. No abundance. Nothing could take root. Nothing could grow. Nothing could sustain. They had left out the one Orisha whose essence was flow and abundance itself. Then she arrived — Oshun. Golden honey skin. Hips like living water. A calabash of sweet, golden water in her hands. She didn’t argue. She didn’t force. She simply poured her flowing, juicy waters. The moment her sweet waters touched the dry ground, rivers exploded into being. Waterfalls roared. Plants burst open in wild color. Animals appeared. Humans were born. Love, creativity, fertility, wealth. Everything juicy and alive began to multiply. They finally understood: Without the sweet, flowing feminine current, nothing can be sustained. Power without pleasure is sterile. Structure without flow is barren. Abundance without the ability to hold it is just another flood that drains away. The sacral chakra, that vessel of beautiful, pleasurable water sitting just below your belly button…. It is Oshun’s river living inside you. When it’s dammed, narrow or constricted — blocked by guilt of wanting more, shame about pleasure, fear of “too much,” or old stories that say “I can’t hold this” your life stays barren in the exact same way.

Hi:) I am Usihlengile from South Africa. I am excited to be a part of a community that creates a safe space for us to lean into the unknown.

1. I have been actively working towards building a brand or business and earning a specific income flow every month. 2. I currently feel that my reality is not changing. This would reflect my inability to decide who I want to be. The money that I receive is nowhere close to reflecting my true potential. This would point to my inability to value my skills and core strengths. I feel that there aren’t opportunities that reflect the kind of woman I desire to be. I do admit that I operate from a place of lack. 3. I sabotage myself by thinking that I need to have the perfect plan in order to act on something. I feel that I need to read more or be more well -spoken. Who I am now doesn’t feel like the kind of woman that would be able to achieve big things. I feel that I am not confident enough, not creative enough, not well-spoken enough, not knowledgeable enough- and this causes a lot of inner conflict. I also get stuck in analysis paralysis. I can tell you every wrong thing about me. And in a way this constant analyzing makes me feel like I’m doing something. I struggle to see past my blockages. I am currently struggling towards admitting to myself that I am destined for wealth. For some reason, it feels so awkward to admit what I already know about myself. I know that I have a good work ethic, I know that I am a good problem solver, I know that I am very good at presenting myself with confidence. I know all of this. But I feel that this knowing is competing with this voice that makes me want to hide away and shrink myself. I do realize that I could be moving through blockages, so I try my best to practice patience and compassion. But I also feel that I’m always ‘working on something’.