Session Summary | Childhood Trauma
Phase 1: Root Wounds Q. 1: Bachpan me emotional neglect ka kya matlab hai? In yesterday’s girls’ session on Childhood Trauma, conducted by @Aleeza Shahzadi we started with Phase 1: Root Wounds and focused on one core question related to Emotional Neglect. The purpose of the session was awareness, clarity, and honest self-reflection.🪞 Here is the summary discussed in the session:⤵️ Emotional neglect ka matlab hai bachpan me emotions ko proper attention, validation, aur acknowledgment na milna. Physical needs aksar poori hoti hain, lekin emotional presence missing hoti hai. Is experience ki wajah se adulthood me girls aksar apni feelings ko samajhne me confuse ho jati hain, emotions express karte waqt hesitate karti hain, aur ye sochne lagti hain ke shayad unki feelings important nahi hain ya wo overreact kar rahi hain. Based on this, we explored the following solution:💛 Emotional neglect ka solution ye nahi ke past ko change kiya jaye, balkay ye hai ke aaj apni feelings ko notice, accept, aur respect karna seekha jaye. Chhoti chhoti cheezon se start karein.. Apni emotions ko naam dein, unhe express karne ki practice karein, aur apne liye emotional space aur boundaries create karein. Ahista ahista jab aap khud ko emotional safety dene lagti hain, inner healing naturally shuru ho jati hai. At the end of the session, we also reflected on an important question: The question is not only what happened, but also how we interpreted it.👉🏻 Kya waqai aap emotionally neglect hui hain, ya aap ne bachpan me kuch situations ko neglect samajh liya? Ye bhi ho sakta hai ke aap ke parents aap se bohat pyar karte thay, lekin unhein apni feelings express karna nahi aata tha. Hum ne unki emotional silence ko ignore ya neglect samajh liya, jab ke asal me wo unka lack of expression tha, lack of love nahi. Jab hum bina soche samjhe ye assumption bana lete hain, to ye soch saari zindagi humein confuse rakhti hai. Is liye zaroori hai ke hum apni story ko sirf emotional lens se nahi, balkay understanding ke sath dobara dekhein..👀💗