@Sue Amidon Welcome! You’re Safe Here You don’t have to have the perfect words. You don’t have to have it all figured out. If things feel confusing, heavy, or even a little hopeless at times… you’re not the only one. This is a space where you can be honest without judgment, and start taking small steps toward something better. All you need is a willingness to begin. Start where you are: What are you looking forward to the most with a new relationship?

@Lori Imasaki I’m really glad you’re here. If part of you is unsure or wondering if this can really help… that’s okay. Most people start there. The fact that you’re here says something powerful… you care, and you’re willing to do something about it. This space is here to support you, guide you, and help you take real steps toward a healthier, more connected relationship with your child. You don’t need to have it all figured out. Just stay open and take it one step at a time. You belong here.

We’ve had a powerful group of parents step into this work recently, and I want to take a moment to properly welcome you all in 👇 @Karla Comberiate , @Chris Roach , @Joanne Zecher , @Esther Levandoski , @Gayle Carlson , @Jerri Higgins , @Carolyn Topness , @Holly Gordon , @James Corbett , @Amy Eudaley You didn’t end up here by accident. Every single one of you made a decision that most parents avoid — to stop guessing, stop carrying this alone, and actually do something about the relationship with your child. That takes courage. Period. This community is different. You’ll be supported, challenged, and guided — but only if you lean in 😊 So here’s where I want to start: 👉 Drop a comment below and share your name + where you’re from 👉 And if you’re open to it, what made you say “enough is enough”? And for everyone already in the community —Let’s show up and welcome them all in! 👇

Everyone, join me in welcoming @Debra Garcia as she begins a new chapter—one focused on strengthening the relationship she has with herself and with her son. Debra, the fact that you’re here says a lot. It shows intention. It shows care. And even when things feel distant or communication isn’t where you want it to be, that commitment still carries weight. This space is here for you—to connect, reflect, and move forward with support around you. When you’re ready, we’d love to hear from you: what’s one thing you’re hoping to gain or experience from being part of this community?

Hello, I was encouraged to write something to the Community section. I'm new and quite nervous to post things so publicly. We live in a small, rural town where gossip can do wonders (in that people care) as well as damage. I don't ever want to say something that makes it harder for our 3 angry children to heal and be open to talking with us again. I also never spend this kind of money on myself and we aren't rich people. We had 8 children. Our 22 year old died of cancer June 4, 2025, one day after our grandson's first birthday and 2 days before my birthday. Meagan was a uniquely positive person that focused on helping others as a 911 dispatcher and friend to so many. She was huge in our community. But her attitude made it easier to accept how God might be working through even this. One of our adult children got mad at us at the funeral and 2 brothers decided to join her in not speaking to us and assuming the worst about us. How can we know what is the problem or explain our perspectives if we can't talk? There is one child in the home and the other 3 adult children all have come to talk with us and understand things, but our angry daughter's home is where "whatever" can happen, so they go there instead of to us. The oldest prefers to stay out of all of it. Our family is so fractured right now, but honestly, we were starting to have some communication issues as they graduated every 2 years (I've been hard of hearing but now have cochlear implants so now can use the phone but struggle to know what to say if I call). I have struggled to accept their choices (living together, drinking, etc), and make small talk and I think that's something I have to work on from MY perspective, not to fix them. Our church, which we've been so committed to for so many years became horrendous when a new pastor determined to clean up membership roles just as our adult children were dealing with their sister dying. My husband as an elder fought against removing the 3 (now mad) children from the roles since they weren't attending there anymore, but IDK if they know that. We told the one who had a child, but the other 2 won't even talk.