Here’s a gentle, uncomfortable consideration to sit with… How much of your relationship is really about you? Your needs. Your view. Your comfort. And how often do you truly see your partner? It’s normal to default to our own perspective and only see our own point of view. But sometimes we can get so caught up in our own perspective that we don’t really see our partner’s. And when that becomes habit… …it quietly erodes connection. Working through that and getting to a place where you understand that you've been more selfish is a crucial part of any relationship. It's hard for all of us to acknowledge that, to take on that less attractive part of ourselves. But ultimately, it's where your relationship will flourish. If you want something practical steps to help, try pausing before you make choices that affect both of you and actually ask. Practice reflecting back what your partner says before responding. And if you find yourself realizing you’ve put yourself first… Name it. Apologize for it. And take reparative action. These aren’t dramatic fixes; they’re just steady habits you can use to rebuild connection.

When I was ten I raised one hundred pounds doing odd jobs for people. I cleaned stone floors, washed cars, clean the fire place, made and changed the bed. Every year I got more letters from Oxfam who I gave the money to, you see they are a big organisation who would always want more.. I was truly grateful for the experience and forty years ago one hundred pounds was a good amount o money. I have always had a passion for home made cooking!. I think having a job that you are truly passionate about is everything!.. Tell me what you think?

There’s this very interesting book called “Letter To The Earth” by Elia Wise., it is written in that style called “Channeling’. There’s a very interesting chapter about love and relationships, I want to share it with you a fragment that help me, to stop doing that mistake., let me know what do you think?

My name is Sally. I loved my husband and he did not love me back. I found out that my husband had the autistic gene. My daughter is in care. She is nineteen today and I never see her. I hope if I can run a successful business then I can see her again!

I'm passionate about holistic health. I know cultivating personal and professional relationships are vital in the holistic health solution equation. I'm glad to be here!