The Relationship You Deserve

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Welcome to The Relationship You Deserve Community

(Please take 1 min to read this entire post) This is a community for people who are committed to creating the relationships they truly deserve. For more than a decade, we’ve supported thousands in ✨ Healing past negative relationship patterns, ✨ Learning how to stop arguing and avoid conflict ✨ How to fulfil yours and your partner's needs. And now we’re here to help you do the same. ❤️ It doesn't matter if you are single ❤️❤️ or in a relationship 💕It doesn't matter what kind of relationship you want (It's not gender specfic) Whether you're looking to: ✨ Attract a new partner ✨ Fix your current relationship ✨ Heal your relationship with yourself ✨ Guide others into the Relationship They Deserve... As a new member, get ready for trainings and conversations on topics like: 💫 How To Heal Toxic Patterns 💫 How To Become A Secure Attachment 💫 How To Handle Conflict And Set Boundaries 💫 How to fulfil your and your partner’s needs… ...and so much more! Here's how to get the most out of this community… ✅ STEP #1) Introduce yourself and your relationship Challenge? Share who you are and what your biggest challenge is at the moment in your relationships? ✅ STEP #2) Download " The 3 Problems Stopping You From Getting The Relationship You Deserve & How To Fix IT HERE: Inside, you will find the exact steps that you need to fix your relationship patterns and get the relationship you deserve. Click here to download the guide now ✅ STEP #3) Access Your FREE Relationship Training Here: We work with our community incredibly personally to help them get the relationship they deserve. Start watching the training and taking the first steps to getting the relationship you deserve with our support: https://www.skool.com/the-relationship-you-deserve/classroom We’re super pumped to serve you. As always, no matter what happens Never give up on your dreams.

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Ed JC Smith

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Relationship You Deserve ICF Certified Coach - TASKING

This post is ONLY for those currently on the Relationship You Deserve ICF Certified Coach Journey Anything you need, we are here for you. This post is to help you track your journey. Ask any questions that you need help with. Use this same post so it's easier for us to help you. Tasking is the pinned post in the updated each week

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Janet Masingill

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No clue what number day it is

And, I am accountable everyday for everything in my life, and that's all right!

Ed JC Smith

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What are they trying to say?

I was coaching someone recently, and they told me something that’s been sitting with me… Each time their partner shared what was bothering them, they felt themselves pulling away. Sometimes they would shut down. Sometimes they would get defensive. And what was happening was they were leaving their partner feeling like their emotions were too much, to the point where their partner was feeling like they were too much. But what if there was a different perspective? Imagine this… What if you’re sitting across from your partner who loves you. Their voice is calm. Their hands are still. They’re not trying to win an argument. They’re just trying to be understood. They want you to see them. They want you to really see them. Not as dramatic or overly sensitive, but as a person who’s genuinely trying to explain how they feel. When they speak up, it isn’t because they want to start a fight. It’s because they’re hurting and can’t think of any other way to say it. And what if you heard it differently too? What if you heard it for what it was, not an attack but an invitation… An invitation into the places that are the deepest inside of them. All they want is to feel like their feelings matter to you. That they matter to you, even when they’re not smiling or easy to be around. They love you. They value what you have. That’s why they bring up the hard things. They don’t do it to create tension. They do it to create closeness. They don’t want to argue. They just want to be heard. Really heard. It made me wonder how often we miss this in our own relationships, mistaking a plea for connection as a reason to defend ourselves... What are your thoughts?

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What's everybody doing today? I'm going to be treating myself to enjoying friendship, cooking delicious Osso Bucco in an instant pot! with a dear friend, and celebrating winter and all the abundance in life provided by God. What are y'all doing today?

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