I used to think kindness would be returned, and that love would make people show up right. But life taught me something different. People will be who they are, no matter how good you are to them.And honestly? That’s why protecting your peace matters more than chasing connections that confuse you. We’re living in a time where mixed signals are normal, honesty is rare, and too many people want access without accountability.I know what I bring to the table. I’m just done sitting at tables where consistency, clarity, and real communication aren’t on the menu. Thank y’all for being here! Hilarie ❤️

Tonight's passage focused on David, and how he approached battles. We all fight battles every day, often on multiple fronts. Here is the scripture we discussed and some key points for reflection: 1 Chronicles 14:13-15:1 “Once more the Philistines raided the valley; so David inquired of God again, and God answered him, “Do not go directly after them, but circle around them and attack them in front of the poplar trees. “As soon as you hear the sound of marching in the tops of the poplar trees, move out to battle, because that will mean God has gone out in front of you to strike the Philistine army." So David did as God commanded him, and they struck down the Philistine army, all the way from Gibeon to Gezer. So David’s fame spread throughout every land, and the Lord made all the nations fear him. After David had constructed buildings for himself in the City of David, he prepared a place for the ark of God and pitched a tent for it.” - What is the first thing David does when facing a battle? HE ASKS GOD WHAT TO DO. The victory is CERTAIN. The victory is GOD'S. By asking Him how to approach the battle, David claims the victory for the Lord, and then honors him by building a special place to house God's ark in his city. - How do you ask and receive answers from God? Does He speak to you through other people? Through symbols? Through gut feelings? Through whispers? Is there a way He is trying to speak to you that you're ignoring?? Pray in EXTREME specifics, and pray He opens you up to receiving His response in whatever way He delivers it. - Are you holding back out of fear that embodying His power will force people out of your life? Are you afraid God will strike fear into others if you invite His power to strike down your enemies? Those who respect him with a healthy fear and a reverent love will not fear you. Rather, they will be drawn to you. Those cast out will be removed from your life to increase your peace and prosperity. He will provide rest from the strife they have caused in your life and PROVIDE ALL THAT YOU NEED TO BUILD AN EMPIRE IN HIS HONOR!