I’ve always thought I was disciplined. But there were long stretches where my actions didn’t match that belief. In 2022, I was around 255 lbs, inconsistent in the gym, and not confident in how I looked or felt. I wasn’t broken. I just didn’t have a system. Once I started changing how I structured my days, the weight began to come off and my confidence slowly came back. Not overnight. Brick by brick. That’s when this clicked. Without a system, motivation fades fast. Here are the three things that actually helped: 1. Make the right choice easy. Lay your clothes out. Pack your bag. Remove friction before the day starts. 2. Stop negotiating with yourself it’s already decided, don’t reopen the conversation. Your goals matter more than how you feel that morning. 3. Make starting stupid simple & clear non-negotiables. Simple daily plans. Consistency over intensity. I’m not sharing this because I have it all figured out. I’m sharing it because I’ve lost momentum before and learned that confidence is built through follow through, not motivation. That’s why we built XV Life. If this resonates, you’re in the right place. What do you think is actually holding you back right now? Comment your answers below and remember this is a safe place to be vulnerable!

At Xclusiv, we believe it's crucial for people to truly get to know us through our XV Life platform. XV Life is more than just a facet of our business; it's a reflection of our core principles and our commitment to personal and professional growth. By engaging with XV Life, you connect with our mission to integrate our values into every aspect of our work and personal development. We’re here to support you in achieving your goals and living a fulfilled, purposeful life, continually striving to enhance both our own journey and yours. 𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝟏: 𝐆𝐨 𝐚𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐨𝐰. 1. Where are you located? 2. What's your business? 3. What are your hobbies? 4. Drop your social media links Be sure to comment/reply to a few of the other community members.

We miss the workouts. We miss the conversations. We miss being able to truly connect. A lot of people saw Chris and I traveling and working, but didn’t see what was actually happening behind the scenes. We got distracted from what we truly love. And that’s people. So we’ve shifted everything in our lives to build XV Life again. Because this is our purpose. This is our passion. We truly hope everyone is doing amazing! SEE yall soon!!!😃