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12d •
I Have A Genuine Question About Career Safety
I want to start a redpill/sexual dynamics reaction channel, but I’m actually scared if it will affect my career. I work in finance right now, as an Licenced life insurance agent on my way to becoming a securities/mutual fund broker. I have the opportunity to own my own agency franchise style. So my career path is not the typical 9-5. But I’d be lying if reputation whether it is with my team or my clients didn’t matter. I truly believe I have something to add to the RP conversation, but I’m worried if it will bleed into my business. My solutions to this problem have been as follows: 1. Only blog with an alias (least favorite option) 2. Wear a mask (which is not great for reactions) 3. Just don’t care, and keep the names/channel separate from my professional profiles. (The riskiest but the way I’d prefer to do it to just be able to show my full self in the content) As far as my research goes, I don’t see the company I work with being too upset as long as I separate the two, but in this world anything could happen since I’m a representative of the company and not completely independent. I know that’s a lot, but I truly feel like I could add to the space. Any thoughts are appreciated
4 likes • 12d
You could also just react with your voice and not show your face. Something like hoe_math.
13d •
Providing Value
As a man, people only care about the value you bring. I like that we teach this principle here. The concept of value was foreign to me, up until a few years ago, when I started sales. Everyone should have a sales job at one point in their life. You have the opportunity to learn a tremendous amount about yourself, human psychology, and relationships. But more than that, and why I believe everyone should work sales at one point, is because everything in life is sales. The construction manager leading a crew, has to sell his team on what they will accomplish that day, and how to get it done. Now, if you’re anything like me, you hate salesmen, but if we’re being honest, what we hate is the salesman who’s only interested in his own gain. We are taught in MOA to look for the win/win situation, how to elevate our lives AND those around us. Life is all about being a man of value, and learning how to give that value away. A stockpile of value does no good, unless it’s given away. I think we all would agree, the salesman who makes your win their priority, is the one you want to do business with … over and over. Maybe you aren’t in sales, but you are a man, and the world only cares about the value you bring to the table. In whatever profession you find yourself, learn to provide the most amount of value you can. Like Michael says, the level of compensation you receive will be proportional to the problem that you solve … aka value you bring! Step #1 Suspend Ego Step #2 Provide Value
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I disagree that you NEEd to work in sales, but it is no doubt useful. Any job that utilizes persuasion or influence can be highly helpful. And a construction manager doesn't need to sell his team on anything. Anyone not pulling their weight should lose their job.
Nov '25 •
Another Example of the Power of Female Friends
I went out for Hallowe'en last night, and started the evening out alone. Physically, at best, I'm a 6 right now, and financially I'm just getting by. Because of my style, presence, and social skill, I was getting women who were 6s or 7s and averaged 35+ years old (I'm 47) coming up to me and starting conversations. A couple hours later my female friend (27 years old), who is a solid 9 arrived. After this, I started getting attention from women in their early to 20s and up who were 7s and 8s. Finally we bumped in to a few of her friends (8s and 9s) and I started getting looked over by most of the women in the room down to 19 years old and the 9s started approaching me as well. I didn't have to approach one woman all night. Sure, I got some interest alone, but it only got better with the female friends.
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@Justin Glatz If possible, try working a few hours a day at a coffee shop or shared office space. If you become a regular somewhere it becomes easier to talk to the other regulars. As for the gym, note where and when in the gym I'm doing this. Sitting at the shake bar. I stay there, drink it and chat with the workers or or the customers waiting for their shakes. Waiting outside the room for group cardio classes. These always have a great girl to guy ratio and the girls are usually chatting amongst themselves because girls usually go in groups. You just listen and chime in. In the hot tub, that's a social gathering space designedfor conversation. If all you do is spend time lifting and on a cardio machine, then yeah, people only have their ear buds in. You have to put yourself in the social spaces of the gym if you want to make friends with women there. The key requirement of social circle game is to actually be social.
0 likes • Nov '25
@Justin Glatz It's always a me problem for every guy until it's not. Every guy's history and life scenario is different and each guy, once he's become comfortable with it, his own way of doing things. I was surrounded by women most of my life, so yeah, I know how to talk to them to make friends. I know some guys who have only interacted with a handful of women in their 40+ years, and yeah, they struggle a lot. The key is exposure. You just need to put yourself in situations where there are lots of women so you can learn the there language so to speak. Even if you don't talk much for a while, just go to where women are and listen to them talk to each other. At some point you'll feel an opportunity to chime in or say something funny. Sometimes that will enter you into a good conversation, and sometimes it won't. But each time you'll become a bit better at it and things will start to get easier. But it can take time.
Nov '25 •
Middle school PE teacher
Even with my occupation, I believe the things taught in MoA and the dating system can work for me. I rarely post on my instagram (haven’t posted in 3 years) and my stories are all sports posts. The issue is that I have former students who request to follow me once they leave MS and go to HS and I accept strictly to keep up with their athletic activities and events. I’m not sure if I should create a new instagram account for the tips of MoA and the dating system or if I should just use the mogul archetype and not post pre selection. Or should I have 2 instagram accounts. One as a coach account and the other as an account to use the skills I’m learning here?
2 likes • Nov '25
As a highschool teacher, I'm trying to minimize pre-selection photos, at least party boy style ones, on my public instagram profile. It's not worth putting your career at risk.
Nov '25 •
Height question
A lot of women want tall men so I’m wondering if anyone has tried wearing shoes that make them taller there are some I saw that add 2 inches to your height would this work to be more attractive. Anyone have experience with this?
2 likes • Nov '25
It's better to ask "why" women want a tall guy. It's because they feel safe around him. But you know what else makes them feel safe, strength. You'll get a way better ROI from the gym than lifts in your shoes.
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