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Do you want to have one girlfriend only or multiple?
I have heard Michael say many times that the top 1% of men are so rare that they can have multiple girlfriends. This topic is very interesting, and I see many benefits of having multiple girlfriends and not just one. So that makes me curious: do you want to have one girlfriend only or multiple?
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@Felix Urbanek Not as yet, though I'm mindful of that. Compared to my "hot list", my list of connectors / networking targets is thin. I'm thinking of focusing on the podcasting industry as that's my main area of interest. I did discover a weekly yoga class within walking distance from my place recently...
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@Jean-Francois Fournier It's odd; I feel like I could be doing more / achieving faster.
Tell female “friends” about dates?
Hey guys. I’m to the situation where I floated the idea of doing something plutonic with an attractive female friend tonight. Since then I kind of forgot and now have a date. Do I tell her I’ve got a date? Not really sure how explicit we should be with female friends / teammates that could in future be an option… this is time sensitive haha
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BTW, @Jacy Mac, there's a broader MoA principle to mind here - actually, it's Rule 6 of the 6 Rules of MoA: No one needs to know who you're fucking or how much money you're making. Now, I think I might have steered you slightly wrong in my prior posts when I suggested you let your friend know that the other booking is a date, in part because I originally thought you were meeting your date at the same place you were originally planning to meet your friend, and in part due to some traditional mindset about how to share a friendship. But, should this re-occur in the future, simply apologise for double booking the time and explain only that the other booking is a priority. No specifics, no justifications. Let that future friend, regardless of gender, think what they like and respond how they wish; that's not your business. Don't worry about "losing them"; let the friend choose for themselves who they want in their life. If I'm understanding rule #6 correctly, the only times you might need to explain that you're dating to a friend who's not in your tight inner circle is: - you need dating advice and feel like they're a trusted source of wisdom - you and your date have moved from simply dating to being in a relationship, and you're about to introduce your significant other to your friend
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@Matthew Porter-Barnett I suspect a lot of us around here find ourselves doing that on the regular! 🤣 At least we're seeing where it can be applied.
Getting number vs IG
I often girls in the wild and get their IG. I notice the advice online is often to get a number instead of Instagram. I wonder everyone’s thoughts on the tradeoff between a number close being less flaky vs the power of having a well calibrated MOA Instagram that they would see. Cheers 🙏
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What @Dan Smith wrote is common MoA wisdom; you'll see it come up a fair bit in the coursework.
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@Brian Morris Indeed. We can always get her number later when we've established a decent connection.
Sydney MoA: Oct 18 Hotel Tour for Lifestyle/Candid Photos
UPDATE: After discussion with Anthony, we've decided to make this another photo shoot day, and this time we're going to start in some classy surrounds; the foyer cafe of the Kimpton Margot Sydney (339 Pitt Street). We'll meet at 12:30PM, grab some food and take a few candid shots of us as a group plotting world domination (lively discussions, reviews of things on laptop screens, etc.), then head off to some other locations around the CBD for more lifestyle photos, potentially including: - The Fullerton Hotel Sydney, 1 Martin Place - The Langham, 89-113 Kent St, Millers Point - Ace Hotel Sydney, 47 Wentworth Avenue - Capella Sydney, 24 Loftus Street - The Darling at the Star, 80 Pyrmont Street, Pyrmont We'll see about photos both inside and, if they have a decent entryway, shots of each of us exiting the premises in style, possibly even some on-street "posse" photos. (Original text:) After having a great time with @Anthony Kenyon-Slade today, I'd like to keep getting together with Sydney MoAs on the regular to swap stories, trade skills and keep each other accountable. So I'm thinking, third Saturday of each month, we meet to catch up, talk shop and refine our plans. No intent to get photos for IG (unless we can get a waiter to get the odd candid group shot) so no props or changes of clothes needed (we'll save that for first Saturday of each month). Who's up for 1PM at City Extra on Saturday, October 18th? @Felipe Grez , @Nicholas Xenophondos , @Jordan Taylor , @Shane Franco , @John Cena , @Trevor Low (also you out-of-towners, @Nick Cownie , @Craig Langlands and @Mick Byrne )
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Final check-in for tomorrow's get together. So far, I have @Anthony Kenyon-Slade and @A M coming along with @Felipe Grez , @Jordan Taylor and @Shane Franco yet to respond. To summarise, we're meeting at the foyer cafe of the Kimpton Margot Sydney (339 Pitt Street; short walk from Town Hall Station) at 12:30PM for lunch and candid shots of us talking and planning (may need to tip the waiters to get them to take photos), then going form there to other 5-star hotels and outdoor locations (such as Angel Place) for more lifestyle photos. Bring your camera/iPhone, a change or two of clothes and any props, as well as the photos from the five IG profiles you selected at the end of the OMD Day 1 course that you want to copy/emulate.
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@Jacy Mac Thanks! Will tag you in on the next one.
Friends first has changed my energy
Ive been noticing how much easier things feel when I treat women as friends first and not like a goal, not a decision I have to rush, and not something I need to force. My psyche is calmer cuz No pressure. No timeline. No performance. Conversation flows better. I’m present instead of calculating. It feels like talking to another dude just one who looks better, smells better, and speaks softer. And the energy is better on both sides. One woman recently thanked me for being “easy to talk to,” and it clicked: Ease comes from removing pressure, not from suppressing attraction. We just had “bible study” btw….. Friend-first doesn’t kill attraction. Pressure does. This approach keepin me grounded and regulated. If attraction grows, it’s real. If it doesn’t, I haven’t lost myself trying to make something happen. Curious if anyone else has experienced this shift.
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I'm still working on it! I find a certain amount of neediness still creeping into my interactions; usually feels like a push for physical intimacy and the opportunity to be romantic. The urge to fix my loneliness problem through a woman is easing, thankfully.
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Hi! I'm Rob Farquhar and I'm in South-West Sydney, Australia. My IG is @itsrobfarquhar I'm a customer support officer and occasional podcaster.

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