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35-year firefighter, photographer and mental health advocate. Founder of DheillyFire Photography and Unbreakable. Strength with purpose and community

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Health Care Workers
UNBREAKABLE Health care workers aren’t overwhelmed because they’re weak. They’re overwhelmed because they’ve been strong for too long in a system that keeps asking for more… and giving less. We don’t help them by telling them to be more resilient. We help them by making it safe to say “I’m not okay.” By fixing staffing instead of hanging wellness posters. By protecting breaks instead of praising burnout. By listening to the people on the floor instead of silencing the truth. You can’t meditate your way out of chronic understaffing. You can’t “self-care” your way through moral injury. And you can’t heal in an environment that refuses to change. What actually helps? Connection. Being heard. Leadership that sees humans, not metrics. Support that doesn’t threaten careers. Time off that is respected. And the freedom to be more than the uniform. Health care workers carry trauma quietly. They show up anyway. They care anyway. But even the strongest crack when the load never eases. If we want unbreakable caregivers, we have to stop glorifying sacrifice and start building systems that care for the caregivers. Strength isn’t suffering in silence. Strength is speaking up, being supported when you do. Unbreakable isn’t about enduring more pain. It’s about finally giving help where it’s needed.
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Traffic
People are usually not thrilled to see a traffic cop in their rearview mirror… until they actually understand what the job really is. Traffic enforcement isn’t just writing tickets. It’s standing inches away from vehicles flying past at highway speed. It’s walking up to a window not knowing if the person behind it is angry, impaired, panicked, armed… or just someone having the worst day of their life. And then there’s the mental side This time of year is supposed to be about celebration: office parties, family gatherings, Christmas cheer. But traffic officers know better than anyone that one bad decision behind the wheel can shatter more than just a festive night. Drinking and driving doesn’t just risk your life… it risks theirs too. They’re the ones standing on the roadside while impaired drivers blow past without realizing the danger. Traffic officers absorb all of this quietly: fatal crashes, impatient drivers screaming in their face, shift work, constant vigilance. But still, they show up. They step out onto icy shoulders in -30° windchill. They protect people who will never know their name. So this Christmas, show some respect. Slow down. Don’t drink and drive. And remember the human standing on the side of the road, trying to get everyone home to the people they love.
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Dogs and People
Ever walk past a dog and instantly think, “That one looks dangerous”? Maybe it’s big. Maybe it’s scarred. Maybe it’s barking because life taught it that’s how you protect yourself. But then you get close… and realize it just wants someone to sit, stay, and trust. A gentle soul wrapped in a body the world misjudged. People are the same. We judge the size, the tattoos, the attitude, the silence, the history without ever giving them a chance to show who they truly are. Some aren’t angry… they’re scared. Some aren’t cold… they’re protecting their heart. Some aren’t dangerous… they’ve just been hurt before. Imagine what could happen if we led with curiosity instead of fear. So before you cross the street, look away, or write someone off pause. They might just be the loyal, loving soul you’ve been searching for. What’s a time you misjudged someone and were glad you were wrong? Share it. Someone needs that reminder today.
“Digging Deep When You’re Running on Empty”
There’s a point in everyone’s life where “being strong” stops feeling inspiring… and starts feeling exhausting. You know that moment? When life stacks weight on your shoulders faster than you can unload it. When you’re trying to improve, trying to grow, trying to be better but inside you’re thinking: “How much deeper do I have to dig?” Here’s the truth no one likes to admit: Sometimes the strength isn’t in the digging… It’s in deciding to keep going when you have every reason not to. It’s in the mornings you drag yourself out of bed anyway. It’s in the nights you sit with your thoughts instead of running from them. It’s in choosing to try again even when nobody sees how hard that choice really was. Improvement doesn’t come from perfection. It comes from the messy, uncomfortable, honest places where you question everything but still take the next step. And that’s what makes you Unbreakable. So today, I want to ask something real, something that might help someone else in this community: What was a moment in your life when you had to dig deeper than you thought possible… and somehow found the strength to keep going? Your story might be the one that reminds someone they’re stronger than they think. Drop it below. Let’s build each other up one honest story at a time.
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Helping others / helping you
Last night reminded me why giving back matters: not just for others, but for our own hearts. Photographing the Ronald McDonald House fundraiser put me right in the middle of a room full of people choosing compassion. And there’s something about witnessing that kind of kindness that shifts your whole mood. You can’t help but feel lifted. I saw the hugs, the tears, the strength of families fighting for their kids… and it reminded me that when we help others, even in small ways, we heal a little too. To everyone who showed up or gave what they could thank you. You didn’t just support families… you added a bit of light back into your own life. Helping others is one of the fastest ways to feel whole again. ❤️ Jump in on the thought I’d love to hear from you.
Helping others / helping you
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Richard Dheilly
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35 year retired firefighter / Professional photographer / Survivor of ptsd / Father of three young men

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Joined Sep 13, 2025
REGINA, Saskatchewan Canada