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35-year firefighter, photographer and mental health advocate. Founder of DheillyFire Photography and Unbreakable. Strength with purpose and community

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Honour
Not all service comes with a siren. Some of it comes in silence… in precision… in honour. Meet Dave Reed. A paramedic who didn’t just answer calls he helped shape how we honour those who wore the uniform before us. While most people never see what happens behind a state funeral or a line-of-duty service… Dave is there. Teaching. Leading. Making sure every movement, every step, every salute means something. He’s donated his time to train members from fire, police, and EMS in drill and funeral protocols so when the worst days come, we show up the right way. And here’s the part most people won’t see… The uniforms? The ceremonial swords? The honour guard presence that looks so professional and put together? It’s not handed to them. They fight for it. They fundraise for it. They piece it together however they can because the people they’re honouring deserve nothing less. Dave was also the first paramedic in Canada appointed as an Aide-de-Camp to a Lieutenant Governor. Let that sink in. That’s not just a title. That’s trust. That’s respect at the highest level. And now with another historic state funeral on the horizon he’s still pushing forward, still asking for help, still trying to build something bigger than himself. Because for Dave… this was never about recognition. It’s about respect. Respect for the uniform. Respect for the fallen. Respect for doing it right when it matters most. These are the stories you don’t hear. But they’re the ones that define us. Humans Behind the Uniform. #HumansBehindTheUniform #EMS #Paramedics #HonourGuard #RespectTheUniform Saskatchewan FirstResponders Leadership ServiceAboveSelf
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Family dynamics.
For 35 years… You knew exactly who you were. The job. The uniform. The purpose. The people counting on you. Then one day… it slows down. And whether you’re ready or not you’re not that guy anymore. That’s a hard shift. Because it’s not just retirement… it’s learning how to let go of control. The real test? Watching your kids grow into their own lives. Not needing your advice the same way. Making their own calls. Taking hits you can’t protect them from. And every instinct in you says: “Step in. Fix it. Lead from the front.” But this chapter? It’s different. Now it’s about stepping back… and trusting that you did enough. That the lessons stuck. That the example mattered. That they’re ready even if it’s not your way. I’m learning this in real time. Some days I miss the noise. Some days I miss being needed like that. But then I look at my kids… and I see strong, capable humans finding their own path. And I realize Maybe the job now… is to be proud from the sidelines. There’s strength in showing up. But there’s a different kind of strength in letting go. And that doesn’t make you less… It means you built something that can stand without you. If you’re in that transition just lhttps://youtube.com/shorts/RId6bLPQ_es?si=qUyzG4JHkZp_tegD know this: You didn’t lose your purpose… you just passed part of it on. #Unbreakable #LifeAfterTheJob #LettingGo #Fatherhood #NextChapter
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Photography at Funerals
There are some scenes you don’t prepare for… even after a lifetime in this job. I stood behind the lens at a police funeral this week, doing what I’ve always done capturing moments, telling the story, staying composed. But this one hit different. Because I knew the officer Same age as me. Same stage of life. Same miles on the body. Same understanding of what it takes to put the uniform on every day. And in that moment, it stopped being just a job behind the camera. It became real in a way that sits heavy in your chest. You watch the family. You watch the uniforms lined up. You hear the silence between the sounds… There’s no highlight reel here. No second chances. Just a life of service… and a final goodbye wrapped in respect, tradition, and heartbreak. #Unbreakable #HumansBehindTheUniform #ThinLine #RespectTheUniform #NeverForgotten
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Photography at Funerals
We’re quick to judge
Quick to film. Quick to comment. Quick to tear down the badge. But the moment something real goes down… sirens screaming… chaos unfolding… danger still in the air… We step back. We pull out our phones. We watch. And we wait for someone else to step forward. That “someone” is the police officer you were just criticizing. The one walking toward the unknown while everyone else is walking away. The one making split-second decisions with incomplete information and everything on the line. You don’t see the tension in their body. You don’t feel the weight of what could happen next. You don’t carry what they carry after it’s all over. It’s easy to hate from a distance. It’s a lot harder to understand what it takes to stand in the middle of someone else’s worst day and take control of it. Before you judge the uniform… ask yourself one question: When it’s real… are you stepping forward… or are you standing back and watching? #HumansBehindTheUniform #RealityCheck #RespectTheBadge #Police #FirstResponders
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Split second
There’s a split second every firefighter knows… You drop to a knee. Hands on your mask. And everything in your head hits at once. What are we walking into? Is everyone getting out? Do I have enough air? Where’s my crew? Then training kicks in. Control your breathing. Slow it down. Focus. You think about the job. The steps. The muscle memory drilled into you for years. But underneath that… There’s the human side. The part that knows this could go sideways. The part that thinks about your family for just a second. The part that feels the weight of it all… and still chooses to go. So you mask up. And just like that fear gets tucked away, emotion gets locked down, and the firefighter takes over. Because that’s what you were trained to do. But here’s the part people don’t see… All those thoughts? They don’t disappear. They wait. And when the call is over… when the gear comes off… that’s when it all starts to surface. Behind every mask… is a mind carrying more than just the job. Take care of yourself. #HumansBehindTheUniform #FirefighterMindset #MaskUp #MentalHealthMatters #FirstResponders RealTalk
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Richard Dheilly
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35 year retired firefighter / Professional photographer / Survivor of ptsd / Father of three young men

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REGINA, Saskatchewan Canada