"The greatest skill you can develop is the ability to stay in a great mood in the absence of things to be in a great mood about." Love this quote from Alex Hormozi so much. Finding the gift or the opportunity in every challenge will get you to your desired goal or emotional state so much faster than indulging in a negative emotion. 💪💥🤩

Hi everyone 💜 For our January Dating Re-Entry folks, we have our 4th live call tonight — and I’d love to see you there. The LINK is in the Calendar tab. This is a moment to pause and notice your forward momentum. Even if it doesn’t look dramatic from the outside. Every small step counts: - Signing up for an app - Sending (or replying to) a message - Going on a date - Saying “no” more cleanly Progress isn’t loud, it’s cumulative. PLUS: We will cover the 5 Biggest Mistakes people over 50 make and how to stop them. Bring your questions, your wins (big or tiny), and anything that’s feeling sticky right now. We’ll tackle it together. See you tonight ✨ PS: If you are a Premium member, you are welcome to attend. To upgrade to Premium, go to: https://www.skool.com/find-love-after-50/plans

A person who is becoming increasingly important to me asked me this question in regards finding their special person. While I have no answers I can observe that as someone who was in a long relationship that I do the things that make me comfortable. I eat at places that I am comfortable in, so I tend to go places that are quiet and private where I used to enjoy the company of my significant other. Now that I’m alone my comfort zone hasn’t changed but those places tend to attract people who are in the situation I was once in. In short they are not available for long term one on one relationships. So I ask myself where would I be comfortable that others like me might also go and be open to connection. I think many of us “people reading this post” have chosen these online forums to make connections. I find it far more comfortable than sitting in a bar or a Dave and Busters looking for someone who smiles at me. We have all been around a while and know in person events are more immediate and potentially gratifying just with a lower chance of finding that person. Just my thoughts but I see these online events as phase one in getting in touch with the right people. And we are not doing it wrong just methodically and likely slowly when we all would prefer speed. We can’t completely rely on online events so I find sites like MeetUp are good resources for possible in person connections. I hope I said something intelligent and possibly helpful.

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One thing I'm really appreciating in this season of life is this: Dating after 50 isn’t about chasing, fixing, or proving anything. It’s about clarity, self-awareness, and choosing connection with more ease and enjoyment ,exactly what this community stands for. At this stage, many of us aren’t looking for more options… We're looking for the right alignment. That might start with: 🌱 Understanding our patterns 🌱 Communicating more honestly 🌱 Letting go of old timelines 🌱 Creating space for something healthier and more fulfilling This chapter isn’t rushed it’s intentional. And when the inner work is done, attraction feels lighter, calmer, and more natural. 💬 I'd love to hear from you: What’s one thing you’re approaching differently in dating or relationships in this next chapter? Let’s share and learn from each other 🤍