Hello Everyone.Took me a while to get on to the Skool app. And I am happy to be here. Looking forward to connecting and knowing the group.

Dating isn’t just about chemistry, timing, or even compatibility. It’s about emotional availability: our ability to recognize our own level of emotional availability, as well as how available others are, without making it mean something about us. In a recent group session with my premium members we discovered something quite interesting: Most people aren’t struggling with dating per se... They’re struggling with interpretation. 💥 Read the full article here. LMK in the comments which of the 6 insights resonated the most.

Last night we held our first virtual social event, and the energy in the "room" was amazing! 40 of you showed up, jumped into breakout rooms, and did something that's surprisingly rare these days — you had real, honest, low-pressure conversations with other people who are in the same boat and who *get it.* Here's what you told me you loved most: 💬 "Everyone seemed so genuine." 💬 "Open and honest discussion among courteous, empathetic individuals." 💬 "It was refreshing to meet virtually and know that all attendees are single." 💬 "Conversations with others going through similar dating issues — not feeling so alone." 💬 "Such a nice, friendly, low-pressure bunch of people." 80% of you said that you would definitely attend again ( 95% if I count the maybes), and 90% of you said you would recommend it to a friend! I consider that a huge win for a first-time event! What struck me reading your feedback was this theme: you came to meet people, and you actually did. Participants were from across the country, all navigating similar landscapes, all showing up vulnerably and authentically. Thank you for keeping an open mind and for tolerating the technical issues - so much great learning from this event that will make the next one that much better! PLUS, most importantly, based on the matching form, I see how much interest there is in deepening the friendships and connections! And yes — we're doing this again. 🙌 Not sure when, but I'll keep you posted! Thank you for showing up, being open, and making this community feel like exactly what it's supposed to be.

We now have over 60 people registered for the Spring Mix and Mingle Exclusive Pilot, this Tuesday at 6 PM EDT. This is your chance to try a new way of meeting new people and get a jump start on spring. I am running this event in April and am not sure when will be the next time - so don't miss out! A couple of important notes to make this experience work as intended: If you’ve registered but haven’t completed payment yet, please take a moment to do that now so we can finalize the count. We’re curating the breakout groups intentionally. Only paid + completed online forms will receive the Zoom link on Monday. Complete your online form here. Complete your payment here or through PayPal on Meetup.

Join us today for 3-4 casual and friendly Social Round Robins over Zoom—a light, guided way to meet new people, have real conversations, and enjoy human connection in a low-stress environment. REGISTER here to get the Zoom Link. We start at 12 PM EST. There’s no forcing chemistry, and no expectation to “find someone” - just small, rotating conversations. Everyone in my community is welcome! Invite your friends and online matches as well! See you there! Dessi PS: Using your desktop is recommended over a phone for the best user experience.