🐴 GET GOOD HORSEMANSHIP TIP 14.
Some of the best advice I can give you is this: ➡️ Teach relaxation when they’re already relaxed... ...don’t wait for tension to teach relaxation. Like really! Teach it when your horse is already calm. When they’re standing quietly. When they’re breathing softly. When nothing dramatic is happening. That is the moment to reinforce: • Softness in the body • Lowered head and neck • A sigh • A blink • A release through the ribcage • A longer exhale Because here’s the truth people forget far too often - we cannot prevent tension! Tension is how horses survived for over 2 million years. Their sensitivity is not a fla, it’s the very reason they are still here. Spooks will happen. Startles will happen. Adrenaline will happen. However, what we can influence is how quickly they return. When you layer relaxation into the calm moments, you build a reference point. You are teaching their nervous system: This is safe. This is normal. This is where we come back to. So later, after a spook, a noise, a sudden movement, their response time shortens. Instead of staying in fight, flight, or fright…they may check in sooner. And just like us, horses are miserable when they live in prolonged stress. If we become the mediator of calm, the anchor after adrenaline, the consistent place of safety, our bond grows tenfold. Relaxation is not the absence of tension. It is the skill of returning from it. And that skill can be practiced every single day. 👉 Questions? Pop them in the comments my friends. Zoë 🐴✨🫶