It’s my birthday today and last night I invited a ton of people both people I knew and a bunch of other people I never met to come bowling and then hit the club with us (I have a table) and I got a few confirmations from dudes and a couple from girls I knew, but a lot of the girls I didn’t know would respond with “no” or “do ik you” or they were interested but they had school. Additionally, I also used my old Instagram account that wasn’t entirely ‘fixed’ so that may have contributed. I was wondering if you guys think this was too low of a funnel of an event to be inviting people I’ve never met or was more of an instagram thing (that Instagram shows decent access in my highlights but I only have one carousel photo on the grid)?

What is your opinion about having 4-6 girls at home for dinner, and just me. No male friends. Do you think it makes any sense? Any first hand experiences?

How do yall handle people coming to you being like “I see you messgaed a ton of people I know” or “why am I getting messages from ppl saying you hittin them up” or “why would you want a bunch of ppl u don’t know coming”?

Did some cold approaching last night. I know that mystery says to practice 4 hours a night, but I get socially tired after an 1 and a half hours (chatting and banter, etc.). How do you guys build up to 3 to 4 hours?

I use to be the guy always rushing to txt girls back and drooling over every single precious match I’d get on a dating app. After I STARTED to fix my mother fucking instagram (thanks for everyone that gave me shit for not taking action on this) I get about 5 matches a day and legit leave girls on read because I’m busy and don’t care to get back to every girl that messages me. Total perspective change after getting tons of girls in my DMs like I’m back in high school being one of the cool kids again. Thanks Mike, you’re the BEST!