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Some things don’t end because they’re bad. They end because they’ve done their job.
Lately, I’ve been noticing a quiet shift..not dramatic, not urgent.. just a growing awareness that certain patterns no longer fit the person I’m becoming. People pleasing.Comparison.Perfectionism disguised as “high standards. Waiting until I feel ready before starting. For a long time, these habits felt protective. They helped me belong. They helped me stay safe. They helped me feel “enough.” But over time, they started costing more than they gave. This coffee-time reflection isn’t about fixing yourself or pushing harder. It's about noticing what you might be outgrowing and giving yourself permission to let it go. Not all growth looks like adding something new. Sometimes growth looks like setting something down. If you’re in a season where motivation feels different, or old strategies aren’t working the way they used to, you’re not broken. You might just be changing. What are you letting go of ?
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@Drew Gillette Very cool art and I like the meaning behind the piece!
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@Drew Gillette I fully understand as I tend to overshare about topics I'm passionate about as well and can even be a "conversational bully" 😅. I once took an improv class at Second City about the "Yes, And" concept and there was an exercise to try to have a conversation with another student for as long as possible. At first it was easy and we'd simply ask one another more probing questions to see if we could find common ground and build rapport on the random topic we chose. However, when things started drying up or I'd feel uncomfortable, I'd simply change the topic about something I was more familiar or passionate about. And by constantly changing the conversation that way so I could talk more, it was defined as being a conversational bully. And the point of the Yes, And concept was to take what the other participant in the conversation was giving you, add something and allow the other person to reciprocate.
Share some learned wisdom
“What’s one lesson you learned later in life that would’ve saved you years if you learned it earlier?
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@Jason Munroe That's a tough one for me as well as I tend to go into problem solving mode. For example, I've helped people I know re-write entire essays.
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I'd say the importance of financial literacy and investing. Another piece of wisdom is to be comfortable doing things solo like traveling or taking a workshop to learn something new 😄
Planning a games night
- Dominoes - Cards Do we need cash prizes also? What othergames do y'all want to play?
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I'd be open for a games night but no prizes needed 😅
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@Jason Munroe I bet enough in my daily life haha 😄
Turn off the self hate .. note to self
I and many of my clients have something in common. A mean coach lives inside me..maybe more than one. They want to protect me. They mean well. But their coaching used to cause me to spiral frequently. This can still happen to me but I've learned to either turn them off altogether or reason with them. The rough love and warnings don't work to help me reach my goals no matter how well intentioned they are. If your life had a reset button, what’s the first thing you’d turn off
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@Drew Gillette Thank you for sharing Drew! I think the emotion is something many people can identify with about things happening in their own lives.
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@Drew Gillette I like how the art style and colors share a common theme and you've developed your signature work which is very distinctive. The faster you iterate and create more art, the sooner you'll get to mastery of your own form.
Energy Audit
Name one thing that gives you energy and one thing that drains it Rule: No explanations, just answers
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Having a new experience planned with friends gives me energy, while seeing dark skies and snow on the ground drain my energy
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@Drew Gillette Apparently a lot of AI software can help with a lot of the email replies now haha.
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Kevin Lee
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Hi :)

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