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Day dreaming vs manifesting
Hi guys, recently this questioned popped up in my mind if you guys can share your light maybe it will help me. I have always been a day dreamer and as a teen, young adult (il stick to one topic here - relationships ) I always soooo deeply legit would listen to love songs, movies and play out such beautiful scenario's of a loving man. To your surprise, of course iv had my share of really shit show of a love life mostly. How was that any different than manifesting? And how come I only thought good thoughts and deeply did so yet still ended up with such horrible people. What went wrong. Thank you love you all🙏
2 likes • Aug '24
Ooooohhh Naaz I feel you. I find my day dreaming mostly comes in physical fitness. Like I fantasize that I can breakdance and do all sorts of things 😂 I appreciate what others have said here. Maybe it’s because it’s so far from where I am currently and maybe I don’t believe I could actually do it, I just fantasize instead of practicing or really believing it can happen 🤷‍♀️
Thanks guys
This last week has been particularly difficult and I missed the last two calls. It’s been so powerful to say “it’s okay to be frustrated. It’s OKAY that I’m feeling stressed and annoyed.” Just trying out these different methods and allowing the space to feel those things has dampened the severity of them and I’m actually feeling more peace. Wanted to say thanks for Chris and everyone sharing and participating.
How do you check in with people?
This may be a silly question, but when people ask how you're doing, how do you share and check in with them? If there is something that is a bit difficult going on, do you discuss it with a positive spin only and say what's you're manifesting to happen? Or do you talk about the details of it and try to say something positive in the end? Or do you just allow yourself to feel your feelings without bringing it around? These days, I do not share the nitty gritty always as I think sometimes it can come of very Eeyore-like. I'm not afraid of sharing my emotions, I just think sometimes it can really ruin the flow I'm in. Would love to hear what others have found and do for themselves!
2 likes • Aug '24
@Patricia Cross Hahahaha that's awesome
3 likes • Aug '24
@Chris Grieder I agree with Chris. I tend to be pretty private with my struggles to avoid coming off "Eeyore-like" haha. Only when I feel like the friend I'm talking to truly wants the best for me will I open up. The vulnerability can make me feel really connected, even if the solution doesn't come as fast as I hope for. Also, being on the other side, when someone confides something painful or challenging, it can actually feel good being the confidant. When someone trusts you enough to seek your support or advice is a privilege. I hope you can get this encouragement here too.
Question about being judgmental
This is similar to what someone said about being happy and then almost looking for negative things. Almost like the brain just can't be happy for too long. I tend to do this with people close to me in my life. For example, my sister in law did something back around Christmas that really angered me. I never said anything but I definitely felt resentful towards her and my brother in law. Then they got married in July and there was stuff that happened with the wedding that annoyed me. She acts completely normal and nice which tells me she didn't pick up on my tone in my texts or my distance from her. Now every time she posts or I'm around her I'm just so annoyed. I hate to admit it but maybe I'm a little jealous. She's in her 30s thriving in her career and freedom which that was me in my 30s and now life is a lot different. I'm happy to be a mom and have this beautiful life but I miss those parts of me. However I'm still secretly judging her even tho that was very much me. I sometimes think she's selfish and self centered but Idk maybe that's how I was perceived before kids. Anyways my point is I tend to zero in on people close to me but then something shifts and I'm fine with the person that was driving me nuts, then I find a new person 😂😂😂 I don't like that I feel this way and I'm putting out negative energy to them and myself. What is your take on this and what is going on with me lately? Lolll
1 like • Aug '24
Hi Sheri, I am glad you posted this. I used to struggle SO MUCH with feelings of envy. Like I just could not figure out how these specific people had such fabulous careers and traveled the world and it would make me feel so terrible and inferior. I came to the realization that my envy could be fuel and direction for what I truly wanted. I also saw this great phrase "each on our own path." Everyone is on their own path and has their own challenges and triumphs. Maybe it would be worthwhile to address your SIL in a non-confrontational way about what upset you. Or open up to your husband that you would like to go to a beautiful office too and have more professional relationships (easier said than done, I know) I don't know how old your children are, but you will regain more independence and freedom as they grow and gain it themselves. Wishing you all the best ❤️
Fun Little Synchronicity
Hi guys! I've been loving the start of this course and excited to see what more is to come. I wanted to share a fun little thing that happened. I had never heard of the book "Illusions" until Chris and a classmate mentioned it on the first call. A few days later, I was reading an article online about an entrepreneur I admire. The article was many years old and she mentioned that "Illusions" was a book she loves and has returned back to several times over the years. I was stunned! From never hearing of it, to recommended twice in one week. I've begun reading it and liking it. If anything it makes me want to get a pilots license! Haha My favorite passage so far is "you're always free to change your mind and choose a different future, or a different past." It spoke directly to how narrative-driven life can seem and how much I have alleviated my own suffering of regret by reframing my "mistakes" as choices that did eventually work out and led me on the path I most wanted to experience and learn from. 🌺
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KayCee Miller
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Hello everyone, my name is KC. I work in cultural heritage & diplomacy. I enjoy swimming, dancing, & language learning.

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