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What is a fear you’ve overcome or outworked?
‘Every time fear wins it is strengthened.’ That quote terrifies me. - What mindset/reframe helped you overcome hesitation? Fear puts invisible walls up on the possibilities of our life. Some are simply good for us, some are learned and purely fed by an unruly commitment to feeling inadequate. I say ‘commitment’ because if the same diligence was put into convincing ourselves greater than that fear, we would inevitable conquer it. When you take a radical ownership of your life, you realize playing against fears is the fastest way feeling truly present and alive. It builds a confidence faster than any other habit. It makes you wonder ‘what else have I been holding myself back from?’ - I DESPISE being on camera. So I’ve done over 270media posts since 2020. The chance what I share is valuable to somebody is more important than my insecurity. - I feared starting public interactions, so I did 100reps of just saying “Hey, I’m working on breaking my social anxiousness, can I ask you a story-question?’ And asked one from ‘Compass of Connection’😜 it became a fave thing to do when stuck on a chairlift now ! - I feared being misunderstood and social conflict. Because my upbringing reference was malicious conduct and put-downs. I didn’t want to act that way. So learning to slow down, reframe to ‘us vs problem’ conduct, I actually am fairly excited during misunderstandings. It is an opportunity to see how truly committed we are to a harmony, or whether insecurity is still running the show. Nothing refines connection like stacking victories over issues. I KNOW I get to be a living example of healthy conduct and change others sense of possibility for how arguements can unfold:) How about you??
What is a fear you’ve overcome or outworked?
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A fear that I’ve been working through is the fear of rejection and people pleasing. A big lesson I learned was that the root cause of the breakdown of friendships, professional relationships and romantic relationships was the fear of rejection and people pleasing. For years, I shrank myself, my values, my boundaries, and my faith as a Christian. I found my worth was in what others thought of me, tiptoeing on eggshells to be accepted and liked. The fear of rejection crippled my worth and self-esteem. It wasn’t until I decided to make changes and it clicked that I would no longer shrink or lose myself for the validation or love of others that don’t choose me or value my worth, and I would not accept bread crumbs and relationships that left me feeling drained, confused or unsure where I stood. I found a freedom in being genuinely me and to be confident in my identity digging into finding myself and pouring into myself. I am at peace with my journey and have accepted that I won't be everyone's cup of tea because I'm more of a carmel macchiato 😂 The value of not people pleasing, setting boundaries and just being my authentic self has been filling my cup daily and has proven to me my value and autonomy. And lastly I released and forgave myself for allowing people to take advantage of my kindness and empathy and released anyone who didn't add value to my life so that I could heal grow and break the cycle of fear of rejection. Healing is an ongoing process but I'm heading in the right direction and finding fulfillment and joy in life once again!
When was a time a risk you took paid off?
Life is full of adventures hiding behind an entrance fee of curiosity! It must simply be greater than our self-doubt and fears! Very few people in life land their truly aligned career or relationship on first attempt. We’ve all lived far more colourful lives than first impressions could ever tell. Share one of those stories here! For myself, last summer, I had an epiphany that I must CHALLENGE my limiting beliefs. One was that I could not be a heli-pilot because of 3 heart procedures as a kid with leukaemia. You can’t fly with risk of heart palpitations - which I have had probably once a month for 20 years. But I never medically confirmed this to disqualify me. The day after I realized I made an assumption, rather than make proof, I went to an aviation medical examiner, did all the test and passed with flying colors! 💫 I expressed my concerns and he said ‘no, you’re a young healthy guy despite your cancer, crazy if you DONT go for this with your clean bill of health.” 🤯 Next step, I call my only heli-pilot contact I met a a horseback guide in the Yukon a decade ago. I asked for pointers before paying $80,000 in schooling. 9min phone call later, he offered me a job as ground crew at his helicopter outfit in a remote Inuit village in the Yukon. I dropped my life, drove 37hours and spent 2 months in the epic north! Learned a TON! BUT! I learned that my truest calling is to be of deep and personal service to individuals. My gifts are to elevate others, and flying was just a ‘that’s pretty badass’ dream that I thought was denied me because of my heart procedures. But that man gave me an opportunity to realize my priorities and saved me heart $100,000 and YEARS of debt by giving me an inside view before investing. So my words to you, do not simply buy into any negative assumption about yourself. Challenge it and realize how often ONLY our own mindset and the story we tell ourselves is in the way! Thanks to @Georgiana D for inspiring this conversation!
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@Carrisa Carrier thank you so much I feel so encouraged. It’s a breath of fresh air and this new found freedom in putting myself first and knowing my worth is unreal!
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@Dan 'Remmy' Stourac thats right life is full of opportunities for relationships that fill each others cups! I closed a chapter and what felt like loss at the time was actually redirection and the gain of severing toxic attachement and stepping into self-reliance self-worth and healing to create secure attachments in the future. Great things are ahead!
What would younger-you be most shocked and proud of with current-you?
I remember pride the day I donated a shelf full of Xbox games and filled all 4 shelves with books (read) by age 21. I never thought the most rich I’d feel is while maxing out minimalism. I used to have pride in the whole ‘lone-wolf’ take on life. Now I emphasize connection and networking as one of the most important and essential life skills. What about you??
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Younger me would be shocked about how much of a badass I became and how unapologetically me I became. I didn't let my struggles or scars define me and I chose to be kind even when others didn't treat me with kindness. I chose to become better rather than bitter.
Introduce Yourself!
Hello awesome people, I'd like to kick off with an quick intro and allow others to introduce yourselves! *Please: 1: Say hello. 2: Share a little about yourself along with an ambition or two. 3: Share a photo or gif that represents you.* <And also stay in the loop by downloading the apps here: Get the iOS app here. Get the Android app here.> Here you can meet the other growing, intentional people that have been invited and yet to find us! I am Dan, also go by my middle name for my pen name, Remmy, (Remmington). I am a cancer-surviving, horseback guiding, story-crafting, fear-facing, fumbling forward man of action! It is my absolute delight to take my life's work and it into gamified courses on this platform. It will help you explore your own inner-being, wage war on whatever woes you're facing, take bold steps, and celebrate the blooper reel of us valiantly fumbling forward. It's messy, but boy, it can be a beautiful ride through life when shared alongside people who want to squeeze the marrow out of life. We all have different ambitions and struggles to conquer, but our self-actualization is the ultimate gift we can give ourselves and those who we share life with. A rising tide raises all ships. This group is for those wildly curious of their own potential. We support: - Conquering bad habits - Building emotional literacy and resilience - Accountability to new risks and desires - Waging war on loneliness and navigate how to deepen relationships - massive action and breaking limits imposed on our own potential I can't wait to meet you all and for you to meet one another. Cheers to epic new beginnings.🤙
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@Carrisa Carrier Thanks for the warm welcome! Looking forward to sharing more of my story. There are exciting opportunities ahead and a new way to fill my cup and pour into others. Looking forward to connecting more also!
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@Dan 'Remmy' Stourac Thank you! I can't deny that I was put on this earth to serve and be a light to those who need some positivity in their life.
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Jonathan Delgado
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I dedicated 10 years to human service work. I recently stepped down to pursue a career in the Barber world helping others feel confident and sexy!

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