Every home that is struggling with equality of invisible labor has a conversation they are struggling with that takes on different flavors, which one are you struggling with the most?
My requests of 'I need to take on more of the invisible load' get so often countered with his 'well I need more physical affection ' and lead to a sort of competition of whose needs aren't being met
Living just outside Rotterdam, Netherlands. Married 10 years, together almost 20. We have a 10 yr old girl. My husband and I each work on average 3 days in the office and 1 from home.
Hearing for first time? Have the book, gathering dust? Started, stopped Read a fair amount, haven’t implemented cards Had 1 talk with cards, and never revisited? Revisiting consistently
I've read the book and bought the cards. We've looked through them and started. In an hour we only managed to discuss 4 cards.. but noone stomped off angrily so I'll take it as a small win.