So many of us look outside of ourselves for answers, but have you considered that what you’re reaching for is 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗼𝘂𝘁𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗪𝗜𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗡 𝘆𝗼𝘂? I do weekly Mirror Transmissions over on Substack and felt called to share this as I feel that sooooo many of us wait for permission to do things... whether it's starting a business, changing our daily habits, waiting till we're ready or till someone says it's ok to do so... it's almost like waiting for permission and giving ourselves excuses as to not yet start! 𝗕𝗨𝗧... what we're waiting for is not coming from outside of us. We don't need permission from the outside world... 𝘄𝗲 𝗺𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘀𝗱𝗼𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻 𝗨𝗦. 𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴? 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗸𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗽𝘂𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘁 𝗼𝗳𝗳?

"I am a human being, not a human doing." Kurt Vonnegut

Do you talk to yourself?

I don’t try to convince anyone that this energy healing really works. I stopped doing that a long time ago. Because people who want to understand… they feel it. And people who aren’t ready… no amount of explaining will ever be enough. Here’s what I don’t tell most people: I don’t chase skeptics. I don’t argue with people who think healing is “woo woo.” I don’t waste energy proving myself to anyone. I don’t explain the magic to those who already decided it’s not real. I don’t shrink myself just because someone else can’t see beyond their own fear. That’s the quiet truth behind being a healer: We don’t convince. We don’t chase. We don’t push. We simply serve the ones who feel the pull… The ones who are ready… The ones who know there’s more to life than pain and survival. Healers don’t need to prove anything. We let the transformations speak for themselves.

I read this line in the book "The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz: “Real love is accepting other people the way they are without trying to change them. If we try to change them, this means we don’t really like them.” Geez… this hit me straight in the heart! I never thought of it this way. Ever since I became a holistic health coach back in 2012, I felt a deep need to help my mum reverse the heart dis-ease she had by helping her get healthy with food. She was open and willing at the start, however because I was so adamant about helping her, I think I pushed too hard and after a few months, she gave up. In hindsight, despite her losing some weight and feeling pretty great, I know it would’ve been better to have guided her gradually. I wish I could still help her now, but it’s not my decision. People will only change when they desire to, not when WE want them to. Have you ever tried to change someone and how did that work out for you both?