I’m going to be teaching you the exact system I use in my home. This is not theory. This is not something I just came up with. This system has worked for 50+ parents I’ve introduced it to. And if you are consistent and actually follow through… it WILL work. This is the system behind: ✔ why I don’t have to keep telling my kids what to do ✔ why I don’t have to raise my voice ✔ why my follow-through is strong ✔ why my children know I mean what I say And let me be clear… This is not being used on “easy” kids. This system is being used in a home with: 👉 ADHD 👉 high-functioning autism 👉 ODD All the things people say make it “harder.” So don’t just come to watch. Come ready to implement. Here’s what I need you to do TODAY: Grab a notebook, paper, your phone whatever you’re going to use. And write ✔ a list of your child’s behaviors that are NOT acceptable (attitude, not listening, hitting, ignoring, etc.) ✔ a simple list of what your child should be doing DAILY (wake up, brush teeth, get dressed, eat, clean up, etc.) Don’t overthink it. Just get it written down. Because when I drop this tomorrow… you should be able to start applying it immediately in your home. We’re not just learning this week… we’re building systems that actually work. Be ready. I may send a zoom link or just post a video.. which would be better for you?

A lot of conversations around ADHD, autism, and different diagnoses turn into “Where did this come from?” “Is it generational?” “Can it be prayed away?” “Is this spiritual or natural?” And I’m going to say this with love… We can spend so much time trying to figure out where it came from… that we neglect what we’re supposed to do right now. Because at the end of the day… Whether it came from generations before… Or this is simply how your child was born…your responsibility does not change. If your child catches a cold… You don’t sit there all day trying to figure out where it came from. You treat it. You nurture them. You give them what they need. So when it comes to our children… We can’t get stuck in: renouncing everything or ignoring everything or debating everything We take a full approach. We pray We believe God We stand on His Word AND… We build structure We teach discipline We get support if needed We show up consistently Because faith without works is dead. You can pray all day… But your child still needs guidance structure training It is OK to believe God for healing. But while you are believing…you still have to build. Because what if… God doesn’t remove it immediately… but uses it to grow YOU? To strengthen your patience… your leadership… your dependence on Him… Think about Moses. He struggled with speaking… And God didn’t remove it. He worked THROUGH it. He sent help. He still used him. So the question is not just Will God, take this away. The question is also God, how do I lead my child through this? Because one day… your child will not have you right there. Will they only know “My parent prayed for me…” Or will they know: how to stand how to function how to navigate life because you trained them? Let’s not just pray over our children… Let’s prepare them.

You have 15 seconds to give your child an instruction. That’s it. Not a sermon. Not a TED Talk. Not your whole childhood story. 👉 15 seconds. Because after 15 seconds… you’ve lost them. You over there talking like: “Now I told you earlier when we were in the car that I don’t like when you—” Meanwhile your child is looking at you like: 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀 They wondering: • why your breath smell like that• what that is on your tooth• why you got gray hair coming in• what they eating at school tomorrow• if they left their toy outside They are NOT listening. You are just… talking........... 😭 So here’s how it works: 🔥 Step 1: Say it in 15 seconds “Go clean your room.”“Pick that up.”“Stop hitting.” Clear. Direct. Done. 🔥 Step 2: Give them 15 seconds to repeat it back “What did I just say?” If they can’t repeat it… they didn’t process it.....START OVER 15 SECONDS ONLY 🔥 Step 3: Move No long lecture. No extra talking. ....... Action. Because let’s be real… A lot of times the lecture isn’t for them. It’s for us. We just talking to feel better 😭 But their brain doesn’t work like that. Especially with ADHD. They need: ✔ short✔ clear✔ direct✔ repeatable So today’s challenge: Try the 15 Second Race. And come back and tell me… Did it work, or did you catch yourself starting a whole sermon? 😂

Father, I come to You with honesty. There’s a version of motherhood I imagined… A version that felt easier, smoother, more predictable. And sometimes, I grieve that. I didn’t expect the challenges. The constant redirecting. The emotional highs and lows. The extra patience it takes. And I need You to meet me in that truth. Forgive me if I’ve compared my child to others. Forgive me if I’ve felt frustration where I needed understanding. Forgive me if I’ve quietly wished for “easier.” Today, I release the child I thought I would have. And I receive the child You gave me. Fully. Without resistance. Without comparison. Without disappointment shaping my perspective. You did not make a mistake. My child is not “too much.” My child is not broken. My child is not behind. My child is designed. So give me new eyes. Help me see their wiring, not fight it. Help me understand their mind, not label it. Help me respond with wisdom, not just frustration. If they have ADHD, ODD, AUTISM or process differently teach me how to parent them specifically, not generally. Give me tools. Give me patience. Give me strategy. And Father, heal me too. Heal the exhaustion. Heal the comparison. Heal the quiet grief I didn’t want to admit. Replace it with compassion. Replace it with clarity. Replace it with confidence in how You made my child. I will not parent from disappointment. I will parent from acceptance and intention. My child will not feel like a burden in this home. They will feel seen, understood, and covered. I trust You that everything they need, You will equip me to give. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Because this is not just about behavior… This is about understanding your child AND supporting you as a parent. This week we’re going to talk about: • how to correct behavior without constant battles • what discipline actually looks like with ADHD • how to get your child to listen without repeating yourself 10 times • what to do when they won’t sit, won’t focus, or seem like they don’t care But we’re also going deeper… We’re going to pray over: • the parent who feels overwhelmed • the parent who feels judged or misunderstood • the parent who feels embarrassed in public • the parent who feels like they’re failing • the parent who is tired of being triggered every day Because this journey is not just hard on the child… It is heavy on the parent too. So this week is not just about correction… It’s about support, strategy, and covering your home in prayer. If this is you, drop below: “This is me.”