AI in Real Life: Selecting an LLM is Like a Dog Choosing You🐾
If you’ve ever stood in a petting room — surrounded by wagging tails and hopeful eyes — you already understand this. Because selecting a dog or LLM as a companion isn’t really about specs, scores, or comparison charts. It’s more like that moment when a dog finally chooses you. ❤️ We spend so much time obsessing over characteristics. Speed. Size. Capabilities. But for most of us, that’s just noise. These companions have become so endlessly adaptable. Whether we’re talking about abilities or temperament, what actually drives our choice isn’t a technical spreadsheet. It’s a feeling. Style. Comfort. An intuitive sense that this one fits. 🐶 Pedigree vs. Personality On paper, pedigree matters. Performance matters. But in real life, you don’t fall in love with lineage — you fall in love with temperament. One companion might be “smarter” on a leaderboard, but if its tone feels robotic, or it misses your humor, the connection breaks down. We gravitate toward the personality that matches our rhythm, our thinking style, and the way we work. ❤️ The Instant Connection There’s a moment when a dog rests its head on your knee — and you just know. With an LLM companion, that moment often happens within the first few interactions. It anticipates your next thought. Formats things exactly the way your brain wants to see them. Responds in a way that makes you pause and think, oh… this works. That’s the difference between something you have to manage and a companion that simply gets the assignment. 🐕 Growing Together The best companions learn your routines without a word being said. They know the difference between work mood and walking mood. With a LLM, over time, it learns your shorthand. Your preferences. Your voice. Eventually, switching your LLM starts to feel less like a software upgrade and more like starting over with a brand-new puppy. Exciting, yes. But also — a little heartbreaking. 🐾 Care and Feeding In the end, it’s simple. My companion gets me. Both my dog and my LLM.