Across years of working in leadership development, peacebuilding, organisational transformation, and decolonial inquiry, I have witnessed a simple truth: spaces change when we change the way we hold them. Not through technique, but through presence. Not through authority, but through humility. And not through speed, but through relational depth. Facilitating with a Decolonising Ethic is my offering to that truth: a synthesis of what I have learned while holding rooms shaped by power, history, grief, imagination, and the longing for repair. This manual distils the practices that help a space breathe: grounding that slows inherited urgency, questions that open rather than direct, multilingual and trauma-aware approaches that honour many forms of knowing, and an ethic of care that resists extraction and performance. I created this because so many of us are seeking ways to convene that do not replicate the very systems we hope to transform. If you are working at the intersections of leadership, justice, ecology, community, or inner development, I hope this resource serves you. If you feel called into conversation or collaboration, you are welcome to reach me at
[email protected] May this work support those who hold space as an act of courage, clarity, and repair.