Sometimes I think about the different characters I play in everybody’s story. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I’m a terrible person in some people's narratives and a God send in others. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ And none of it has anything to do with the person I truly am. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The lens that others view me through is colored by their upbringing, beliefs, and individual experiences. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Some people see my bright personality as endearing and others see it as annoying. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Some people think I’m weak and emotional and others feel safe to be themselves around me. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Some people think I’m rude and selfish and others respect the way I stand up for myself. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ And none of it has to do with who I truly am as a person. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So I will continue to remind myself that I have no authority over how people view me. Therefore I will not try to control the way others see me because the only thing that truly matters when the dust settles down at the end of the day is what I genuinely see in myself.

Have you ever noticed how holding onto bitterness, resentment, or past pain seems to affect not just your emotions but even your body? Inflammation, illness, and stress can often be linked to the things we’re carrying internally. The Bible speaks so beautifully about the importance of flow—the spiritual and emotional release that brings healing and renewal. In John 7:38, Jesus says, “Whoever believes in me, rivers of living water will flow from within them,” pointing to the Holy Spirit’s life-giving presence in us. Proverbs 4:23 reminds us, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” This tells me that when we release pain and guard our hearts, the natural flow of life, joy, and healing can move freely. One of my favorite passages is Ezekiel 47 (fun fact this was confirmation to buy our 47 acres too), where water flows from the temple and brings life and healing wherever it goes. It’s a picture of what happens when we allow God’s Spirit to move in us—removing blockages, renewing our spirits, and even impacting our physical well-being. This isn’t just spiritual; it’s practical. Holding onto stress and unforgiveness can manifest as real physical problems, while releasing those burdens through forgiveness and connection allows us to align with God’s design for abundant life. What are you holding onto today that needs release? Let’s start the conversation in EpicYourLife and discover how living in flow can transform not only your spiritual life but your health and relationships, too.

Are you stuck in cycles of pain or blame? It’s easy to get trapped, but recognizing these patterns is the first step to freedom. Here’s what you need to know: 🌪 Addiction to Trauma • Trauma can feel familiar, even comfortable, creating a dependency on chaos. • Stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol can make the “drama” feel addictive. • Without healing, some seek relationships or situations that mirror past pain. 💔 The Damage of Blame • Blaming others erodes trust, creates isolation, and leaves you feeling powerless. • It fosters a victim mentality, keeping you stuck in negativity and emotional instability. • You lose the opportunity to grow, build resilience, and take control of your life. ✨ The Power of Personal Responsibility • Taking ownership of your actions empowers growth and emotional stability. • It builds trust, reduces conflict, and strengthens your relationships. • Responsibility fosters independence, self-worth, and a solution-focused mindset. 💡 Ask Yourself: • Am I stuck in cycles of blaming others or reliving past pain? • How can I take responsibility for my emotions and actions moving forward? Healing starts with YOU. When you stop blaming and start owning your story, you regain control of your life and open the door to healthier relationships and deeper peace. Are you ready to take that step? Let us know in the comments! 🌟 #HealingJourney #PersonalResponsibility #BreakTheCycle

My name is Esther. I currently live in Jamesport Missouri, but grew up most of my years in Kentucky. I have 4 children ages 14-6. I have a story, as does everyone, but will try to keep this brief. I’m still learning who I am and what I like but I’m here to develop skills to better connect with my children and learn how to invest wisely and become a better manager of Gods money. I have been in direct sales for the past 6 years with some success. I have an office job and also do transport several days a week which I’ve really come to enjoy. (Except for the time it takes me away from my children.)