Inner work often moves toward mastering our state — feeling clearer, more open, more “high vibe,” and keeping it that way. That can be useful, until it quietly turns into something we have to hold together. Every now and then there’s a different kind of opening: a moment where the effort to track, fix, or upgrade our state simply drops out. What’s left isn’t collapse. It’s an un-managed clarity that doesn’t need us to keep it in place. Sometimes that’s where the most honest guidance begins.

A lot of people talk about healing as if it were something we “do” to ourselves — patching old stories, reconnecting with the inner child, working through shadows until they finally stop returning. Yet most of these movements rest on a quiet assumption: that something in us is broken and needs to be repaired. And once that idea takes hold, every feeling becomes another sign that there’s still work to do. The wound grows by trying to heal it. Sometimes what actually brings relief isn’t more processing, but noticing the moment the system stops trying to fix itself — as if the pressure to change was the very thing keeping everything tight. Which leads to a different kind of question: What part of your healing journey continues only because the idea of “not being whole yet” is still running in the background?

With New Years Day in the rear view mirror, we enter the "meat" of the year. Some see this as the start of a long march. Instead, today, January 02, is the first of 364 days of opportunity! Everyday is a new chance to manifest, receive, achieve and attract everything you have ever wanted or dreamed of. As eternal beings this is very exciting! Enjoy the ride of surprises. Today is the first day of the "meat" of the year, and the first day of the rest of our eternity!

I'm so blessed that some beautiful women have appeared in my life and I feel very honoured and gently acknowledged, accepted and seen as part of the healing community where I have moved to begin a new life. This feels supportive and integrative. I know our purpose is coming together as its meant to. But I'm being challenged atm with not carrying trauma into my new life. It's my first experience of trauma and ptsd in my life (after I worked through trauma 12 years before but that healed through working through the marriage until the same happened again) I don't want to carry trauma with me, I don't want it hanging around my aura and affecting my energy and creating patterns. But also something new os occurring, another challenget. My mums rejection of me at this time when she is dying. Everything before April2024, (coinciding when I joined high vibe tribe) feels like it's been striped away . Im being called to something wholly new but instead of accepting this with joy and passion I find myself pulled back by abandonment issues. Hoping some of you can guide me through this.

Any ideas to get over heartache ? Broke up with my partner and the pain is unbearable. I’m actually starting to take paracetamol cause it hurts so much…but you live and learn