Reflection: “Who or What Costs Me More Than It Gives?”
Good evening, soul family, Today’s journaling prompt hit hard: “Who or what costs me more than it gives?” As I sat with it, I realized that sometimes the things that drain us aren’t always people—they can be habits, patterns, or even circumstances we’ve allowed to persist. For me, it showed up as: - My eating habits—overeating or eating foods that don’t align with my goals. It feels comforting in the moment, but leaves my body heavy and disconnected. - My spending habits—rushing to cover things or feeling pressure to create revenue now instead of focusing on what builds long-term stability. - Certain family dynamics—visits that feel forced, roles I slip into automatically, needing to monitor myself to avoid judgment, and the energy it takes to just “fit.” - Emotional labor—constantly thinking ahead, bracing for impact, regulating others’ energy or reactions, even when it isn’t mine to carry. All of these things, I realized, cost me more than they give me—more energy, more focus, more peace. And sometimes, the solution isn’t removal; sometimes, it’s conscious awareness, patience, and boundaries. I had to remind myself: right now, it’s okay to let some things just be. My suite may feel expensive and draining today, but it’s building future stability. Certain people, habits, or expectations may drain me now, but that awareness allows me to choose where to put my energy instead of reacting in survival mode. ✨ Reflection questions for today: - What habits, routines, or patterns are costing you more than they give you? - Where can awareness replace panic or overcompensation? - What small adjustments can you make to protect your energy while still honoring your commitments? Release isn’t about perfection—it’s about clarity. It’s about noticing where your energy is being drained and taking conscious steps to redirect it toward nourishment, growth, and alignment.