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8d •
INFJ
I noticed there's a few of us with our Myer's Briggs personality type on our profile. I'm INFJ, which is only about 9% of the population, and known as the Counselor. It's very fitting considering my natural calling and life path. Who here is also an INFJ? What's your personality type, and do you find it's fitting for who you are?
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Do you have a reliable site or link where we can find out what our personality type is?
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How do you manage loneliness?
Hey everyone, I am a travel nurse about to take on my first contract outside of Canada! I wanted to pick your lovely brains on what you do to manage loneliness. This is a two part question: - I’m about to start a life in Australia, leaving everything behind for 1 year +. Do you have any advice on networking and building community in a new place? I want to be intentional with who I surround myself with, how do you maintain a standard of friendship when the urgency for connection is strong? - Leaving home has brought up lots of feelings. I feel there is a disconnect between myself and my loved ones who can’t relate to the experience I’m having. I feel as though time spent with me is not being prioritized by my loved ones which has left me feeling ironically lonely before I leave. How do you grieve imperfect goodbyes?
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I love you asking this question, it’s very vulnerable and brave. You feeling like your loved ones and family members aren’t prioritizing time with you before you leave, Have you expressed this want and need to them? This is a big, exciting life change for you. You are feeling everything and all of your senses and emotions are heightened. Your brain and body are hyper aware of everything you need to get done and pack in before you leave. Your loved ones are still running on regular time, with their regular schedules and regular lives. That is a big contrast. It could be that some of them have feelings of abandonment and that tends to affect how people act in these situations. Maybe they haven’t realized that time is running low and they need to be spending time with you before you leave? The biggest thing is to communicate this with them 🩷
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Meeting new , quality people as an adult is hard and takes more time and effort than when we were kids. As a kid we seem to get automatic friends by association, school and other activities. As a kid , you can just walk up to another kid and start talking about random stuff and be best friends without even knowing their name. As an adult it takes a little while to build trust, depth and connection to get that deep bond we crave. Who do you envision as your new friends? Where do they hang out? What hobbies do they have? Where do they shop and why at that specific place? Go to these places. Facebook is a good resource for activities and events to meet people. Examples that I can give you for myself are: -Farmers Markets -Ecstatic dances -Saunas and cold plunges -I go to the same coffee shop and intentionally strike up conversations and hope to see that person again. -There are pop up activities like cemetery walks. -Bus or boat tours. -Standing in lines is a great way to meet people. I would not recommend sites like Bumble to meet friends unless you are VERY good at weeding out and spotting red flags and intentions. Make sure to do frequent calls , voice notes, pictures and FaceTime with your loved ones back home. Texting doesn’t have the same level of intimacy as seeing someones face does. Sending lots of love your way for connection and new friends. You are exactly what you need to go out and get some new friends.
16d •
'Us. VS Problems' Micro-story
Is there any one foundational rule or mindset you ladies and gents have used to keep your relationships aligned? Tonight, I wrote out a short story for the Relationship Course and want to emphasize how powerful the 'Us. Vs. Problem' mentality is compared to You. VS. Me' arguments. I share it here 'Us. VS Problem' Mentality - Relationships Unveiled
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A foundational rule or mindset I use to keep my relationships aligned is to COMMUNICATE NEEDS and for me to be curious about my partners needs. This means to communicate every single want, need, desire, hurt, upset, goals, fears, ideas and dreams. To not leave the other person guessing or filling the blanks in on their own. I’ve noticed that when there is a void in an area of my relationship or the communication, I fill in the blanks on my own and it tends to be a more pessimistic scenario or thought, so I need my partner to communicate and shed light on that area for me. I use to be fearful of this type of communication but I noticed that under-communicating was causing lots of problems and misunderstandings…I decided that If the person can’t handle this level of communication or are turned off by me expressing my wants and needs, and them expressing theirs, we are not right for each other.
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‘Us versus Problems Microstory’ Remmy! Excellent reminder and example of working as a team to solve the issue 🩷 When you get into a relationship, the issue being faced becomes a mutual problem BOTH partners need to work on. Not just one partner pointing out the problem and the other working on it solo. Questions: How would emotional maturity matter in this story example? There are partners that refuse to confront a problem in the relationship, or don’t know how to face it from a team mindset. How would your approach and wording matter in this situation?
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Share a Serendipity!
- 💪 Let’s the stories we share here PROVE there is beauty to be found in the great expanse of life after facing what we assumed would have broken us! A Serendipity is a story about how something that was terrible in the beginning became something incredible in the long run. For me, 1. Having cancer as a young kid became the best thing about my life, surrounding me with other incredible survivors (some of you in the group!) and lead me to a passionate life of paying forward the example I was given as a kid. 2. Having poor circulation and getting frostbite a 6th time in alberta due to leukaemia led me to leave my hometown in Alberta. I drove 11hours to a new land with no friends and start fresh in Kelowna, BC. I slowly but surely made more aligned, ambitious and outgoing friends than I could have hoped for. Forcing open space allowed for amazing new surprises. I may not have left if i wasn’t forced to change climates for my health reasons! 3. ‘Failing’ by investing my life savings into my first fantasy book gave me profound lessons. It forced me to face my money fears when I lost my savings, I realized I’d rather be in the philanthropy industry instead of the entertainment industry with a fantasy series. And I had to admit I had NO IDEA what I was doing, and sought mentorship. That seeking lead to meeting mentors that altered my view and sense of possibility in the world, I owe a lot of my conviction and sense of hope to them, thanks to ‘failing’ my first fantasy book. 🤙 What’s your serendipity?
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@Brendan OCallaghan The end of relationships are hard. You have to readjust yourself and your life to that partner not being there anymore but like you said, so much is learned around our heartbreak and ourselves (if we are receptive to it). It hurts but it’s also a growth opportunity, so yeah, serendipitous. Take care of yourself during this time. Be gentle with yourself, wrap in blankets, eat nourishing foods, do comforting things…or don’t. 🩷🩷🩷
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Trying to think of the most perfect serendipitous example in my life; I decided that we can take any situation in life and follow that serendipitous -chance- happenstance-trail to where that specific instance was used as a prompt for something better and more meaningful down the road. Some examples can be small, delicate and barely noticeable …and then there are serendipitous events that happen so profoundly and violently they set you on a completely new trajectory in life. A new job at a local café introduced me to my only neighbor (My farm is located on a prairie with large distance between each house). I avoided meeting this particular neighbor because he seemed gruff, confrontational and intimidating from what I had observed going on at his property and rumors from other locals. Those frequent encounters of him as my customer at the café, led to a friendly acquaintance and then to him confessing that he relocated my large flock of ducks that had mysteriously disappeared and then him asking forgiveness. This led to conversation, connection as neighbors and friends, him giving me information about things and people in the area, Me borrowing tools and having someone to rely on for help here on the prairie if I need it. Photo: Saw horses I borrowed from my neighbor.
Aug 24 •
Introduce Yourself!
Hello awesome people, I'd like to kick off with an quick intro and allow others to introduce yourselves! *Please: 1: Say hello. 2: Share a little about yourself along with an ambition or two. 3: Share a photo or gif that represents you.* <And also stay in the loop by downloading the apps here: Get the iOS app here. Get the Android app here.> Here you can meet the other growing, intentional people that have been invited and yet to find us! I am Dan, also go by my middle name for my pen name, Remmy, (Remmington). I am a cancer-surviving, horseback guiding, story-crafting, fear-facing, fumbling forward man of action! It is my absolute delight to take my life's work and it into gamified courses on this platform. It will help you explore your own inner-being, wage war on whatever woes you're facing, take bold steps, and celebrate the blooper reel of us valiantly fumbling forward. It's messy, but boy, it can be a beautiful ride through life when shared alongside people who want to squeeze the marrow out of life. We all have different ambitions and struggles to conquer, but our self-actualization is the ultimate gift we can give ourselves and those who we share life with. A rising tide raises all ships. This group is for those wildly curious of their own potential. We support: - Conquering bad habits - Building emotional literacy and resilience - Accountability to new risks and desires - Waging war on loneliness and navigate how to deepen relationships - massive action and breaking limits imposed on our own potential I can't wait to meet you all and for you to meet one another. Cheers to epic new beginnings.🤙
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@Lisa Black Hi Lisa! I am so glad your nomadic-gypsy, song writing beautiful self is here.
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@Georgiana D Hi ! Welcome 🥰 I loved your entire introduction but especially the part about relationships, insuring understanding and making sure everyone is seen and lived. Thanks for setting a good example in this.
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@madison-peyer-2311
Homesteader, natural living, guide & teacher to tiny humans, lover of life and the chaos it brings. Much more than a 150 character limitation.
Active 7m ago
Joined Aug 27, 2025
Wisconsin, USA